Follower Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 So i received an email, well 2 to be exact, 1 to each of my email accounts. It Reads the following: "I got an e-mail from SAAS saying that they never received your p60 for april 5th 2010? apparently they contacted you on June 6th to ask for the details and the letter was returned marked 'gone away' I really need a photocopy of your p60 so they don't bill me £2500.00 - i'm already in enough debt! Thanks " Now to explain when we were engaged and living together she used me to apply for her university funding. SAAS knows where i stay and all mail addressed to my old residences is all forwarded to my new address, its worked for all correspondences so far so i don't see why SAAS hasn't managed to get through? Rather suspicious of that. Now i am really struggling what to do here, i'm not a vindictive person by nature but i have this great urge to welcome her to the big bad world. It was her responsibility to ensure they had it, i supplied her with it when she applied well over 2 years ago now with that information. When you screw people financially and emotionally like she did me it will eventually come round to bite you in the ass. I don't particularly feel like sharing my financials with her. On the other hand, I don't want to force anyone into debt, i have lived in poverty or as near as i would like to go, and frankly i wouldn't wish it upon anyone. But then again i know she is living rent free in her parents house with a free car that i maintained for her and has a part time(because she is incapable of full time work) job working with her mother as a housemaid in a fancy hotel. So yea not sure which direction to go, tell here where to shove it, supply her with the info or just ignore the emails and pretend it never happened?
TaraMaiden Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 contact the SAAS directly. Why would she receive an email about your financial dealings? Deal with them first-hand, get to the bottom of the problem and cut her out of the loop. You don't need to communicate with her at all, not even to update her. If she's lying, it doesn't matter, if she isn't, they won't chase her and she will have no worries.
Exit Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 Sounds like an honest email i don't sense her fishing for any updates about your life. Just take care of it somehow maybe she does deserve some bad luck of her own after what she did to you but let life handle that and keep your own conscience clean.
Phanpooh Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 Contact to SAAS and solve that problem... When everything is done, just tell her... End thread? 1
TaraMaiden Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 A P60 is the summary of pay and the tax that's been deducted from it in the tax year. An employer should provide a P60 to keep as a record at the end of every tax year (which runs from 6 April to 5 April the next year). If an employer doesn't issue a P60 at the end of the tax year, the employee should request it - they're entitled to it by law if still working for the employer at 5 April. it is required to: complete a Self Assessment tax return, claim back any overpaid tax apply for tax credits as proof of your income if the employee applies for a loan or a mortgage - so it's important to keep P60s safe.
EgoJoe Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 She used you and you want to help her? I would do as Tara says if anything at all. Definitely would not apply.
Author Follower Posted July 3, 2012 Author Posted July 3, 2012 Took the advice and did it directly through saas that's it all sorted and she should have no reason to contact me again thankfully.. Funny how they crop up just as you start to believe its finally all done and dusted..
TaraMaiden Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 Good for you, well done. If she contacts you again, it may well be to 'chase up' on this. Ignore it. She'll find out soon enough what has happened, so you have no need or obligation to continue any further dialogue. Or if you think it would help, and maybe prevent further hassle, just send her a text: "SAAS matter sorted." And leave it at that....
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