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Are these feelings normal?


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It's been 7 months till my ex and I broke up thought it only feels recent because we stayed "friends with benefits" for about 5 months. I decided I needed space at the end of the spring semester (we both go to the same uni) and I went NC after having a long talk with him. I faced MANY setbacks, and the biggest one being that I kept logging into his facebook to see if he was talking to other girls. I told him to change his password, but he didn't! I felt SO guilty the first few weeks of doing it so I started to die it down. I haven't checked it in a week, and I faced a setback today again...I don't even communicate with him anymore I just can't let this go. When I went on facebook, I saw him talking to a girl but I didn't really feel anything. It didn't upset me nor did I feel super guilty because I just logged out right away. I'm going to go cold turkey again. The first time I went cold turkey i lasted 3 days...now a week.

 

Is this feeling good or what else can I do? Sometimes I get scared when I think of the future and school starting soon.

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Very normal. It sucks but it's normal.

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Normal feelings but stop using his Facebook it's creepy and only hurts your feelings.

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