Romantic Shadow Posted July 5, 2004 Posted July 5, 2004 Ok so about two years ago i fell in love with a beautiful girl named bonita and she was my first real love. There was this horrible person that i wanted to kill and i never got her name. She ruined my life for the time being she spread rumors around about me and got me dumped by my girlfriend. She also threw a book at me and i had to get stiches. I always thought she was beautiful but i hated her with a passion. i swore one day that i would get revenge on her. Then two years later... now i met a beautiful girl named Ashley. She is everything i could and ever want in a girl. I see myself having a future with her. She is in love with me and we have been going out for quite some time now and so i realized that i want to marry her as soon as i can. I then found out that Ashley was this one girl that ruined my life two years ago. Neither of us recognized each other so we didnt know for quite a while. We just found out and we are both speechless because now we are so deeply in love. I must admit im only fifteen but i want her so badly. We are so madly in love with each other that we promised each other that we would grow old together. My parents say that there is no way in hell that i am going to stay with her forever because it never happens. i think it will but what if it dosent... i need some advice very badly!!!!!
StartingAgain Posted July 5, 2004 Posted July 5, 2004 Listen to your parents. You are only 15 years old and it's years too early for you to be finding the woman you will spend the rest of your life with. Your parents are right. You and Ashley will be going your separate ways in just a few months. Love for boys and girls your age cannot last. Don't worry about what happened in the past; you were only 13 years old then and all that was just silly. For now, you and Ashley just have some fun, but don't think about any future beyond tomorrow. And don't have unprotected sex!
Fayebelle Posted July 5, 2004 Posted July 5, 2004 RS- You have posted a couple of times about this girl and if you combine all the information you have given it seems that this is NOT someone you should be moving headlong into a physical relationship. She has proven untrustworthy in the past and still seems a bit immature now. Give yourselves some time to see if this relationship should proceed to another level. If it is meant to be then time will only strengthen your bond. If not then you can make certain your first time is with someone truly special and worthy of you.
Swamp Posted July 5, 2004 Posted July 5, 2004 I am 22, and I am still too young to find that person. Don't put yourself through the unneccessary drama of a relationship at 15. You guys don't even know who you are as individuals yet. What you believe in, what your morals and values are. Have fun as 15 year old. Don't be silly.
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