shibbikitteh Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 This is going to sound like a really daft question, but indulge me. I've got a guy that I like, and I get the feeling that he likes me too, but that's beside the point. I very much believe in the "work on yourself first" as that totally makes sense to me, and was covered in the 'Better yourself thread'. I've been doing this, I start work tomorrow (eep !), in education ect. However, the part that seems to be taking the longest is, getting in shape, now don't get me wrong, I've lost 3 stone so far, and it's only spurred me on to do better. My point is, do I wait to I hit my Goal weight, to pursue, or allow myself to be pursued ? I want to show the best side of myself & I know I have an achievable goal, and I should be where I want to be by September. My issue is, what if I lose my chance with this guy, while I'm 'Bettering myself'? Ugh I'm such a girl >.< What do you guys think? TL;DR : Should wait to lose weight do go after the guy I like, or should I do it before he gets snapped up !
Chunky Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 If he's asking you out now then he likes you. I'd go for it. If you hit your target weight loss, then even better!
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