sid3 Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 You're saying too much of a good thing is bad? Like for instance, I love chocolate, but if I eat 10 chocolate bars I want to lock the rest in a closet and forget about them for a few weeks. That might make some sense. As for the fruit loops and silly straw, that is an idea in development and I haven't done it yet. stay tuned Yes, too much of a good thing can be quite bad actually.
runner Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 That's how it's supposed to work. You'd think it would be obvious yet so many people waste time and energy spinning their wheels. It's common sense. Common sense is uncommon these days. yep. too many people force relationships to happen with the wrong people, and not simply allowing things to develop with the right ones. 2
dizy Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 I was flirting and trying to have something serious with this guy. I even visited his apartment (his roommates were there though) meet his friends blabla and guess what, nothing happened. He didnt ask me out afterwards. No second date. so yeah even though he still looks interested (even more interested than before) I was pissed and I stopped talking to him. I need someone consistant. not some cold and hot type. be honest with your feelings and be honest with me. thats all i ask. Next time after first date, or something that looks like a date make things clear. at least you would get an answer instead of just no response or ignoring afterwards
Celtica Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 Hmm. Last time I did that to a guy was when he was incredibly and anxiously attentive. But it was only after he left to go back to his country. I didn't do it intentionally, it would take me longer to write to him because I was in an emotional state that I felt like I couldn't explain to him. I LOVE it when guys are attentive and eager as it's rare to find, but it's a bit frightening to think they would be scared away merely by some emotional dilemma I am dealing with in my life (see my other thread to understand what it was partially about). So it could be a way of the girls trying to slow things down through their actions as opposed to their words. No smart gal is going to commit unless she knows she is in safe company.
monkey00 Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 OP I don't think you are giving enough info. How are you meeting these girls? Do you ask them out on dates OR do you fall into the friend's zone with them? Have you made a move on any of these girls? How old are these girls?
nessaaa Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 This is exactly what I'm talking about. A man has to play games and mix up stuff to keep a silly woman attracted or she'll lose interest like a child. If this is what the OP wants to deal with for the rest of his life, please be my guest. this! when things are going too good I get bored.. maybe the girls u talk to are immature like me.
Celtica Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 when things are going too good I get bored.. SO true. It's a mystery to me why. I think it's true for the commitment phobes. Isn't it true with guys as well?
Author tenspoons Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 OP I don't think you are giving enough info. How are you meeting these girls? Do you ask them out on dates OR do you fall into the friend's zone with them? Have you made a move on any of these girls? How old are these girls? I meet them in person, mostly by circumstance. I usually fell into the friendzone until I found out what it was, and what it looked/felt like. I put a stop to that streak, and I ask women on dates now. The girls are in their early 20s, and so am I.
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