LittlePrince Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 And you should! Dont let your father try to intimidate you. That's what he is hoping to do because most fathers are bullies, especially Hispanic men. I think dating an older guy is like sticking it to him and keep doing this. I think his real issue is the guy isn't Puerto Rican or Hispanic so the motivation for his "concern" is racial/ethnic.
LittlePrince Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 Didn't you date a young girl who you took on dates to a mall or something? Sorry if I am confusing you with another poster Even older people go on dates to the mall. The mall today is yesteryear's town square.
NYC-BigKat Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 And you should! Dont let your father try to intimidate you. That's what he is hoping to do because most fathers are bullies, especially Hispanic men. I think dating an older guy is like sticking it to him and keep doing this. Why are u doing this?! Its wrong! She is only 18 & u think its good for her to date older men thats too too old? Her father is only trying to save her from getting hurt. Why cant u & some others on here see that?
Shaun-Dro Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 Busted... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/277524-my-sister-stalked-perv-teen-chat So when your 18 YO sister gets hit on by older men it's bad but when some girl that is 17 that YOU want to impress on an internet board gets hit on and wants to date an older man you come to her rescue.. hahaha Nice cute go at trying to debunk my beliefs but clearly you don't have the ability to read properly, because evidently there's a difference between an 18 year old young adult and a 14 year old little girl, but of course you was so obssessed with trying to make a point, you stepped on yourself.
Shaun-Dro Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 Why are u doing this?! Its wrong! She is only 18 & u think its good for her to date older men thats too too old? Her father is only trying to save her from getting hurt. Why cant u & some others on here see that? You again? What's with all this whining? You cry in one thread that no girls like you or will ask you out, then you come on here and babble about how no one cares about this or that and your poor little feelings. Grow up!
Art_Critic Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 So when your sister is at work getting hit on by older guys she is 14..
Shaun-Dro Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 So when your sister is at work getting hit on by older guys she is 14.. Loveshack is seriously devoid of intelligent readers. Anyway, I'll reiterate it for you regardless: my sister pretended to be 14 when she entered into a teen chat only to be hit on by men older than me. The point of that thread was about perverts hitting on minors. Had they'd known she was 18 that's a different story. I hope this thread gets across to you because there's no more I can do to make myself clearer.
Feelsgoodman Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 Then why doesn't she just say 'home'....? We're not all puerto-rican yankees livin' in da ghetto....... You make even less sense than the OP. How can someone be a "puerto-rican yankee"? Do you even know what a yankee is? 1
kaylan Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 Lol @ ShaunDro. Its ok for some 38 yr old to troll for teenagers under the age of 18 at Coney Island. And its ok for him to screw around with teenagers as well. But its weird and creepy when it happens to his sister? Some logic. And we all know he wont be this understanding of older dudes sniffing around his little sister ever, no matter what he says here. Hypocrite? 1
6ft180natl Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 As far as I'm concerned if an 18yo girl wants to date a 38 yo man that is her decision. I bet many of the women here on this forum have dated a much older man at one point in their life and the majority of women here date men that are older than them period. As for the father. If it was my daughter I would embrace the idea while in front of her and have a real talk with her instead of ordering her not to see the guy. 1
SarahRose Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 As far as I'm concerned if an 18yo girl wants to date a 38 yo man that is her decision. I bet many of the women here on this forum have dated a much older man at one point in their life and the majority of women here date men that are older than them period. As for the father. If it was my daughter I would embrace the idea while in front of her and have a real talk with her instead of ordering her not to see the guy. these young girls are easy marks for these old lechers. the young girl usually has a big chip on her shoulder and things she knows it all.
Art_Critic Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 Loveshack is seriously devoid of intelligent readers. Anyway, I'll reiterate it for you regardless: my sister pretended to be 14 when she entered into a teen chat only to be hit on by men older than me. The point of that thread was about perverts hitting on minors. Had they'd known she was 18 that's a different story. I hope this thread gets across to you because there's no more I can do to make myself clearer. I can read... Can you? 1
BetheButterfly Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 let me explain. met a guy last week at coney island. he's older like 38 he told me. I dont know and who cares right? anyways I was digging his style. told me pr girls are the best & how we so feisty and it turns him on. he also has his **** together so I dig him. we go out 2x. my father hits me up and wants to see me. let me say that me and my dad aint all that close and he tries to control me alot so I try to limit my time with him. so I told my father I had plans and cant see him. I actually went out with this guy and my mom told him when he called. he pops up at my crib ready to go rambo on me when I came home that night. he calls me a whore, a puta, a basura, I mean damn, really? anyways he been calling and texting me ever since to drop whoever I'm seeing cuz they aint good enough for me. how do u go from calling me all these nasty ass names to I'm better than the guys I wanna date? I ignore him and then he pops up again at my crib last night and he says he gonna kick my ass if I dont do as he say. he still think I'm a kid but I'm not and my mom only stops him from hitting me. thats it! my dad dont live with me ok. he lives in the bx but still acting like he do. Hello Rana, That is wrong how your Dad treats you. I'm sorry he acts like that. It is possible that is the way he knows, from how he grew up, to act. He does seem concerned about you dating an older man, although he most definitely needs to learn how to treat you kindly. How old are you please? Your age depends a lot the appropriateness of dating an older guy.
Titania22 Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 Hello Rana, That is wrong how your Dad treats you. I'm sorry he acts like that. It is possible that is the way he knows, from how he grew up, to act. He does seem concerned about you dating an older man, although he most definitely needs to learn how to treat you kindly. How old are you please? Your age depends a lot the appropriateness of dating an older guy. She will be 18 in a couple of months. She said so earlier in the thread.
Author rana-rana Posted July 3, 2012 Author Posted July 3, 2012 As far as I'm concerned if an 18yo girl wants to date a 38 yo man that is her decision. I bet many of the women here on this forum have dated a much older man at one point in their life and the majority of women here date men that are older than them period. As for the father. If it was my daughter I would embrace the idea while in front of her and have a real talk with her instead of ordering her not to see the guy. ^^^this is what i prefer but my dad dont wanna do that though. he just wanna be an ******* to me and try to control every freaking thing i do. well i'm coming home tonight cuz my mom says he wont be there and he didnt show up at my job like he said so maybe he gonna chill out for now. who i date is my business. this guy i'm seeing aint that old. and we aint done nothing. he respects that i just wanna talk for now and see what he about before doing anything if i ever do. i'm also kicking it with a younger dude in his 20s and we vibing good and all that and there be other guys all the time asking for my number so i'm good for now with whatever comes.
Shaun-Dro Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 ^^^this is what i prefer but my dad dont wanna do that though. he just wanna be an ******* to me and try to control every freaking thing i do. well i'm coming home tonight cuz my mom says he wont be there and he didnt show up at my job like he said so maybe he gonna chill out for now. who i date is my business. this guy i'm seeing aint that old. and we aint done nothing. he respects that i just wanna talk for now and see what he about before doing anything if i ever do. i'm also kicking it with a younger dude in his 20s and we vibing good and all that and there be other guys all the time asking for my number so i'm good for now with whatever comes. Since it's going to be the holiday, don't be suprised if your controlling dad pops up again to cause trouble. I wish I were there to tell him to back the **** off!
mesmerized Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Since it's going to be the holiday, don't be suprised if your controlling dad pops up again to cause trouble. I wish I were there to tell him to back the **** off! Could you be more creepy? I would love to see a picture of you! 1
BetheButterfly Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 She will be 18 in a couple of months. She said so earlier in the thread. Oh thanks OP, Once you are 18, it's possible your Dad's behavior might change a little? I'd advise kindly reminding him when you are 18 that you are an adult and capable of making your own decisions. Even though I normally disagree with such an age difference (20 years is a big different at this stage of your life), it is true that there are couples who work it out and truly love each other. It is also true that there are men and women of any age who are just users, and don't truly love/care for the other person. Hopefully this guy truly loves you, if love is what you desire.
Jessie32 Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 let me explain. met a guy last week at coney island. he's older like 38 he told me. I dont know and who cares right? anyways I was digging his style. told me pr girls are the best & how we so feisty and it turns him on. he also has his **** together so I dig him. we go out 2x. my father hits me up and wants to see me. let me say that me and my dad aint all that close and he tries to control me alot so I try to limit my time with him. so I told my father I had plans and cant see him. I actually went out with this guy and my mom told him when he called. he pops up at my crib ready to go rambo on me when I came home that night. he calls me a whore, a puta, a basura, I mean damn, really? anyways he been calling and texting me ever since to drop whoever I'm seeing cuz they aint good enough for me. how do u go from calling me all these nasty ass names to I'm better than the guys I wanna date? I ignore him and then he pops up again at my crib last night and he says he gonna kick my ass if I dont do as he say. he still think I'm a kid but I'm not and my mom only stops him from hitting me. thats it! my dad dont live with me ok. he lives in the bx but still acting like he do. huh? pr girls? bx-box? all I got out of this is that a guy called you terrible names. I don't kinow what your question is but if its should you go out with this moron, my answer is no.
Shaun-Dro Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Could you be more creepy? I would love to see a picture of you! Wanting to help defend a girl from her overbearing father makes me some kind of creep? Post a picture so I know who you are or get lost!
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