Shaun-Dro Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 somebody should kick your ass Let's stay constructive on here, guys, or they'll shut this thread down. We don't want that to happen because the OP and a few others will miss out on some of our insightful advices.
SmileFace Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 Yet you are still posting your jealous tirades. Yet you are still commenting on everything I write. It is ok you don't agree with me. You need to understand that. If you value my POV so much send me a pm.
LittlePrince Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 Yet you are still commenting on everything I write.Yes, that is how forums work. It is ok you don't agree with me. You need to understand that.I don't disagree with people. I disagree with the points being made. If you value my POV so much send me a pm. Public forums shouldn't have secrecy.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 Most of the comments on here are biased irrelevant and downright condescending. As a womanwho has dated her fair share of older men, I can say right now, be prepare for anything and everything. When I was 19 I went on one date with a 40 yo he was I ncredibly creepy and sick. I placed myself in a situation where I could've be taken advantage of lukily I removed myself from such a situation. Despite age, men in general are genetically predisposed to want sex. The younger the better. But the correalation between age and sex is that younger girls tend to be more naive due to inexperience. Sure its an ego boost to be hit on by a older man who uses phrases like sexy and beautiful but they are as tactless as being catcalled on the streets. No one can stop the OP from being with a man but we can forewarn her to be careful as men who go after younger women are no different from predators. Youthe op is responsible for your own wellbeing, and despite how aggressive your father can be you have to seethe reasoning behind why he acts theway he does. As always men are capable of playing and women capable of being played. Especially young hispanic females who grew up in a ghetto environment where everyday is a constant battle of getting out of the streets and bettering oneself.
NYC-BigKat Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 Most of the comments on here are biased irrelevant and downright condescending. As a womanwho has dated her fair share of older men, I can say right now, be prepare for anything and everything. When I was 19 I went on one date with a 40 yo he was I ncredibly creepy and sick. I placed myself in a situation where I could've be taken advantage of lukily I removed myself from such a situation. Despite age, men in general are genetically predisposed to want sex. The younger the better. But the correalation between age and sex is that younger girls tend to be more naive due to inexperience. Sure its an ego boost to be hit on by a older man who uses phrases like sexy and beautiful but they are as tactless as being catcalled on the streets. No one can stop the OP from being with a man but we can forewarn her to be careful as men who go after younger women are no different from predators. Youthe op is responsible for your own wellbeing, and despite how aggressive your father can be you have to seethe reasoning behind why he acts theway he does. As always men are capable of playing and women capable of being played. Especially young hispanic females who grew up in a ghetto environment where everyday is a constant battle of getting out of the streets and bettering oneself. I really really like the things u say in here. Um..but how did u meet with a guy so old when u was only 19? I wanna know how u knew he was creepy & what did he try to do? Are u okay??
LittlePrince Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 I really really like the things u say in here. Um..but how did u meet with a guy so old when u was only 19? I wanna know how u knew he was creepy & what did he try to do? Are u okay?? Have you ever met a woman? She wasn't attracted to him and that's how she determined he was creepy.
kaylan Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 LP is back from his moderated vacation...yay Its a shame when some dudes encourage creepers who pray on naive kids. To me, at 25 years of age, girls under 21 are like kids to me. Especially if they are teenagers as well. 1
xpaperxcutx Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 I really really like the things u say in here. Um..but how did u meet with a guy so old when u was only 19? I wanna know how u knew he was creepy & what did he try to do? Are u okay?? I was young and stupid. I use to meet men online because I had selfesteem issues and looked for outside validation. There are a lot of things I'm not proud of but it takes experiences to learn and grow. I'm 22 riht now and despite the sort time,I have come a long way. It's just upsetting there are girls out there who are going through similar situations. The thing is if it takes a bad experience for the OP to open her eyes that's her choice. But advices are the same trust your intuition pay attention to a persons actions over words and protect yourself. Have you ever met a woman? She wasn't attracted to him and that's how she determined he was creepy. I don't see how I can represent every women on this planet considering as I don't prejudge a man because he's a man. I know some good men and some bad men in my life but I certainly would not group them together in the category. Stop using gender as an excuse.
NYC-BigKat Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 Have you ever met a woman? She wasn't attracted to him and that's how she determined he was creepy. No! Stop it now! He a creeper 'cause he old thats why ok? 19 yr old girls should not be dating old men like that at all. I'm 23 & its okay for them to date me but not them. The OP is doing almost the same stupid thing .
LittlePrince Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 No! Stop it now! He a creeper 'cause he old thats why ok? 19 yr old girls should not be dating old men like that at all. I'm 23 & its okay for them to date me but not them. The OP is doing almost the same stupid thing . 38 isn't old. Approaching middleage perhaps but not old. You feel you can't compete with an older man so young women shouldn't be allowed to date them and somehow insulting them drives home the point. Okay. Op is free to date who she likes and it is a better choice for her to date someone secure enough in himself whatever his age over someone with insecurities simply since the age gap is smaller.
Art_Critic Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 Op is free to date who she likes Actually she isn't.. She is still a minor and lives with a parent and her other parent obviously still has some pull as well.. She is bucking her parents like most 17 year olds.. but that doesn't mean she can date whoever she wants and tell her parents to eff off.. The day she moves out on her own and pays her own way is the day.. or when she turns 18, and even then her parents can still make her live under their rules until she moves out on her own. 6
NYC-BigKat Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 I was young and stupid. I use to meet men online because I had selfesteem issues and looked for outside validation. There are a lot of things I'm not proud of but it takes experiences to learn and grow. I'm 22 riht now and despite the sort time,I have come a long way. It's just upsetting there are girls out there who are going through similar situations. The thing is if it takes a bad experience for the OP to open her eyes that's her choice. But advices are the same trust your intuition pay attention to a persons actions over words and protect yourself. I don't see how I can represent every women on this planet considering as I don't prejudge a man because he's a man. I know some good men and some bad men in my life but I certainly would not group them together in the category. Stop using gender as an excuse. Oh. But u still didn't tell me what made him such a creeper?? I know he was too old for u & thats bad but what exactly did he do? Was it bad?
xpaperxcutx Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 38 isn't old. Approaching middleage perhaps but not old. You feel you can't compete with an older man so young women shouldn't be allowed to date them and somehow insulting them drives home the point. Okay. Op is free to date who she likes and it is a better choice for her to date someone secure enough in himself whatever his age over someone with insecurities simply since the age gap is smaller. If we are going to argue about the validott of 38 being "old" ee might as well argue that 38 yo is an adult with no business courting a 17 yo. I would imagine a mpre rational adult would be more sensible to go after somepne in their twenties who are more independent and mature. 3
6ft180natl Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 Serious question here. Is it better for her to be with a 20 year old who just wants sex than it is for her to be with a 38 year old who just wants sex? If so why?
LittlePrince Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 Actually she isn't.. She is still a minor and lives with a parent and her other parent obviously still has some pull as well.. She is bucking her parents like most 17 year olds.. but that doesn't mean she can date whoever she wants and tell her parents to eff off.. The day she moves out on her own and pays her own way is the day.. or when she turns 18, and even then her parents can still make her live under their rules until she moves out on her own. The law sees things differently. Age of consent, etc. By 17 the only thing she can't do is marry without their consent but in a couple months she will be able to. In NY even if you kick her out because you don't like her life choices you still have to support her until she is 21 by helping her pay for an apartment, etc.
Art_Critic Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 The law sees things differently. Age of consent, etc. By 17 the only thing she can't do is marry without their consent but in a couple months she will be able to. In NY even if you kick her out because you don't like her life choices you still have to support her until she is 21 by helping her pay for an apartment, etc. Is there anybody on this thread that you agree with ? hahaha
LittlePrince Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 Is there anybody on this thread that you agree with ? hahaha Seems I agree with at least the OP and I think that's what is getting everyone in a tizzy about.
Art_Critic Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 Seems I agree with at least the OP and I think that's what is getting everyone in a tizzy about. So you agree with a 17 year old girl who is dating a 38 year old man.. I'll bet you're so proud... hell I'm embarrassed for you... 2
Emilia Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 So you agree with a 17 year old girl who is dating a 38 year old man.. I'll bet you're so proud... hell I'm embarrassed for you... I agree although I was in the OP's situation when I was 18 and my 36 year-old boyfriend turned out to be better for me than a lot of guys would have that were my age. Likely to be the exception though of course. 1
LittlePrince Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 So you agree with a 17 year old girl who is dating a 38 year old man.. I'll bet you're so proud... hell I'm embarrassed for you... That's fine you feel that way but I have read your personal philosophies enough to know they are severely lacking.
Art_Critic Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 That's fine you feel that way but I have read your personal philosophies enough to know they are severely lacking. .....
LittlePrince Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 I agree although I was in the OP's situation when I was 18 and my 36 year-old boyfriend turned out to be better for me than a lot of guys would have that were my age. Likely to be the exception though of course. That's not much of a feat considering women typically go out of their way to date the worst. Eventually in any woman's life there is going to be at least one fluke. Good thing you got through that to get back to your type. Good for you champ.
SmileFace Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 That's not much of a feat considering women typically go out of their way to date the worst. Eventually in any woman's life there is going to be at least one fluke. Good thing you got through that to get back to your type. Good for you champ. Is this considered agreeing?
Emilia Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 That's not much of a feat considering women typically go out of their way to date the worst. Eventually in any woman's life there is going to be at least one fluke. Good thing you got through that to get back to your type. Good for you champ. Huh? You are a moron
LittlePrince Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 Is this considered agreeing? rana-rana is the op not Emilia.
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