blue_jay_bird Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 Hi you all, I just want to say all the posts i have read have been a great inspiration, and i feel for all of you. My Story: My boyfriend of seven years dumped me "out of the blue" looking back i see the red flags. To me i was happy as a clam, i guess he wasen't. He said he doesn't want to marry me, but still "love's me." (pfff) I cried and cried asking over and over "what's wrong with me?" He didn't want to say, and gave me the response "It's just who you are". I stormed out of the car with a big **** you. (which makes me proud of myself) I started NC the night it happened. If it was not for the internet, family, and this form i would be begging him i can change. That i made the mistake of being clingy and needy. ext, ext. It's been a month of NC, and i feel good. I feel good cause i'm standing up for myself, and i thought i would crumble. Each day is another great big (**** you ) to him. **** you, for running away when theirs a bump in the road. **** you, for leading me on for seven years. **** you, for not telling me you had worries for months, who knows maybe years. **** you, for telling your people you where going to dump me before i even knew. **** you, for saying you where just tired. **** you, for saying i'm not a strong person. Just had to rant. I want to give this courage to everyone here. YOU are special, you are beautiful, you deserve better. 3
Stanza Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 Agreed, good for you. Mine also left after about same time. I don't know if we'll ever get it but hopefully something better will come along.
Samilia Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 I expected a post to which my reply was going to be "they all say you deserve better" and then I read your post and .. you go girl!! That has to be terrible to be broken up with that way, in a car, but I love the way you stormed out and didn't run back to him! So strong! He lacked tact, he shouldn't have informed the world of your break up before he informed you, I like the way you show "the world" he isn't affecting you as much as he probably thought he would! What a revenge! Alright!!!
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