amythan Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 Hello, I am going out with his guy for two months now. We are exclusive from day one and we spend all our week ends together and we always have an amazing time. He was the one contacting and pursuing me and he is very clear about him being very much into me. So far so good. My background: I lived with my ex-bf for nine years and we are still extremely close friends. Our relationship was always perfect and very fast and intense from the beginning. We start living together the first day We grew up together, we lived in a bunch of different countries, we have friends in common, we traveled the word and i guess we become the persons we are because we spent all this time together. We still communicate very often and visiting from time to time (we live in different countries now). I do not want to be back with my ex-bf by any means, we are just friends, but in the back of my mind i cannot help to compare both relationships. I do like this guy and want this relationship to work, he is the first person I date seriously in more than one year ! But the issue is my current bf is very nice and sweet but our communication when we are apart is just ... boring. he texts me and keep in touch but I cannot see myself bonding to him without things going faster and more intense. He is now on holiday and he texted me yesterday, but that's it. With my ex-bf we were crazy about each other, we talked all the time and we couldn't wait to see each other. I know this guy likes me and it is probably his communication style but I cannot help to feel that something is missed here. I do not want to be unfair because he is awesome with me and when we are together he really shows he adores me but when he is not with me I carry with my life as if he was not part of it. Thanks for your advise !
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