mainenative Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 I need a little bit of advice here. I have been talking to someone i thought was a friend for a couple years now, ive seen him out a few times and we have a few mutual friends but we have never hung out exclusively or anything like that. within the last couple months He and his girlfriend split up and he began asking to see me and at one point he even was telling me how long he has wanted something with me. I ended up going to his place to hangout one night for a few hours, and ended up going back the next evening. About a week later he invited me to go to a friends party with him. we had a great time but i cannot figure out what this guy wants from me. He talks to me so openly on the phone and online but when i see him in person he doesnt make any moves.
TaraMaiden Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 ..."Excuse me," you say, over a coffee and ice cream, "but could you tell me what you think is going on with us? I mean, am I just a buddy, or are you looking to take this to another level?" Smile, shut up and eat your ie cream, and wait for him to reply. That's all you need to ask.
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