WishOnStars Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 i have a crush on a much younger coworker. he is very shy- i am very outgoing and very good looking. i have dropped some subtle but obvious hints that i am interested in him sexually. he has responded with flirting, touching, and even kissed my cheek the other night. a few times he insisted on walked me home but when i invite him to stay and hang out he insists he must leave. basically, im losing patience- we gaze into eachothers eyes and have gsreat conversations everyday. but as a lady i dont want to make the first big move like kissing. i feel like ive made the notion its okay for him to make a move. the only time we hang out is at work and i want to get away from work. i gave him my number but he hasnt used it. he just learned that a few of the other male coworkers have a crush on me so he gets all weird and hovers around when the other guys talk to me. what do i do? i dont want to seem desperate by acting further. but im losing my patience- ive been waiting for MONTHS! i want to ask him if he wants to get together but when i have before he freezes up and mumbles.
ascendotum Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 Invites in + you gave him your number, flirting, that's enough for all but the totally cluesless to run with. Though you say he mumbles when put on the spot, idk, maybe he's inexperienced and feels more insecure about it in relation to being with a mature woman. Maybe he feels a little uncomfortable with dating an older woman, or maybe he's not looking for a relationship, just a fling, and does not want the drama that could go along with that when he has to work with you. Your best bet I reckon is to use another coworker to suss out his opinion of you. imo, you have laid out the bread crumbs for him, right up to your front door, but he seems to have his reasons for not wanting to take it further, and I'd write him off.
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