Easyguy14 Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 this seems to be the case from what I'm seeing. I know about 10 women, some at work that are great in what they do for a living. make excellent financial decisions most of the time but none of this gets applied to their dating world. it doesn't make sense to me at all. ladies enlightmen me why u choose smart career moves but lousy men for relationships? gents could pitch in to with some good answers. after a while someone has to grow up right? but the cycle is endless.
threebyfate Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 I'm in the investments and financial sector, as well as the finance person for our family. My husband's kicks ass like no other, an excellent father and fantastic, loving husband. Need I say more?
january2011 Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 People are allowed to be imperfect. Sometimes the skillsets for each area don't quite overlap and success in one area does not necessarily guarantee success in another area. Besides, men can also be "smart" in their careers and "dumb" in relationships - I don't think women have the monopoly on that. 4
manup Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 this seems to be the case from what I'm seeing. I know about 10 women, some at work that are great in what they do for a living. make excellent financial decisions most of the time but none of this gets applied to their dating world. it doesn't make sense to me at all. ladies enlightmen me why u choose smart career moves but lousy men for relationships? gents could pitch in to with some good answers. after a while someone has to grow up right? but the cycle is endless. Because they like lousy men? It's not that complicated, some women like drama and gina tingles. You're job as a man is to accept it and find women that don't, act more like Mr. Lousy, and deny them relationships if they ever come around to liking you. 1
MrCastle Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 Because when it comes to relationships, most people (some men included) go by emotion and not logic. The logical thing to do if you're dating a loser is leave them but they don't see it that way. It's all about how you make her *feel* not what you make her think. 1
Woggle Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 Because many people have book smarts and good education but little to no life smarts. This isn't always a gender thing. 2
Shaun-Dro Posted July 1, 2012 Posted July 1, 2012 Because when it comes to relationships, most people (some men included) go by emotion and not logic. The logical thing to do if you're dating a loser is leave them but they don't see it that way. It's all about how you make her *feel* not what you make her think. How a jerk makes a woman feel doesn't excuse her poor decisions. I see it that women are biologically programmed to sleep with scum of the earth, but to always befriend the next sucker who will lend her a shoulder to cry on following the heartbreak.
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