cmae1993 Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 i have a few questions ill make it a short as possible. my ex and i dated for 16 months, we have a daughter. and we have been broken up 3 months. he has gone through 2 girlfriends and now he is dating his 3rd girlfriend. while we were dating we took care of if i was sick etc. he claims that he really loved me. he have everything in commen and we have the same personality. the girl he is dating things seem like they are going very great. they spend all there time together they are telling each other they love each so much. they make each other very happy etc. they have only been dating a little over a month. he told me once he was in love with her but a week ago he told me that he wasn't over me . and that he wouldnt ever forget the memories. and when he hears something that reminds him of me he thinks about me. he said that people always try and start drama with them, and they seem to be taking things fast. she has already met his family,started staying the night etc. while when him and i were dating we took things slow. we didnt stay the night with eachother right away i think it was a month or longer into our relationship that he first spent the night. i didnt meet any of his family until about 4 months into the relationship. and we didn't spend as much time together as he and his new girlfriend does. we did our own things and spent time with each other. we still talk, he started texting me first for the past two days. i gave him a ride to work yesterday cause he didnt have a car.. my questions are. is this a rebound relationship? if he isn't over me will it last? Can he be in love with her and not be completely over me? can he just be infatuated with her and think he loves her? If things seem going strong and good between them is it no longer a rebound?
LovelyDaze Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 (edited) Yes, it is a rebound. He called three girls he dated in a span of only 12 weeks- girlfriends I hate stories like this(albeit heartbreaking for the person and true) because it's caked with drama. If you want any chance at a normal, healthy relationship AND a stable, loving environment for your child, you need to stay from any dramatics with your ex. Don't have ex-sex, text cute stuff, be his "go-to" booty call, all in hopes of "showing" him that you are meant to be or whatever. Focus on raising your child right and setting the example of what a strong woman is. Edited June 30, 2012 by LovelyDaze 1
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