hopefull1 Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 My ex broke up with me 3 years ago, it hurt and I tried to move on with my life. 3 months later he came crying to me broken hearted about a girl who he wanted but didn't want him. I was there for him to help pick up the pieces, he told me that he didn't have anyone else he could turn to and that I was the sweetest most loving person he'd ever known blah blah blah...If that was the case why did he break up with me??? Throughout the last 3 years I've tried to just be his friend but we've gotten so close. I spend more time at his house now than I did when we were dating, we sleep together, we have sex, I help take care of his 13 year old daughter...she even tells her friends that I'm her other mom. In the beginning I tried to be just friends with benefits but I have fallen so much in love with him and I want more than to be his FWB. I think he loves me as well...when I don't call him he calls me upset that he hadn't heard from me, when I talk about other guys in my life he gets jealous and upset. Yesterday I couldn't keep my feelings in any longer and told him how I felt and how I love him and want to be with him and only him. We talked a long time and he agreed that I am the perfect girl for him but that he's been married before and has been in other relationships before that didn't turn out so well and he doesn't think he's capable of loving someone and being in a commited relationship again. He told me he cared for me a great deal and that he needs some time to think it over and asked if I could give him that....I am so scared that the answer is going to be no! What does it mean when someone has to think about it? For me you either love someone and want them in your life or you don't....
ScienceGal Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Unfortunately, you know the answer but your emotions are clouding your judgement. You've been amazing to him and have done more than one could ever dream, but it seems as though he will never be able to return that level of love and devotion to you. But, you deserve to be with someone who can, don't ever doubt that. I hope I'm wrong, I really do.
Author hopefull1 Posted July 1, 2012 Author Posted July 1, 2012 Thank you for your response...I absolutely agree with you! Letting go is so hard even when it's the right thing to do...
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