unknownuser Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 (edited) So to start this off rough I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 17, before you guys bash me she is VERY mature and her family and my family allow it. The only problem is after about 6-8 months of being together she moved about 2 hours away. Hey mom won't allow her to take a bus here and she doesnt have a car yet, her mom moved their to be with her boyfriend who is a complete ass and wont let them use the car. Shes had it tough over there with ******* boyfriend having no friends etc. so shes been stressed we were fighting a lot and I was being a complete dick and I didnt allow her to go out and party etc. yet I did it (mostly because I'm 23.) she also cheated on me right before she moved but came back and we've been happy ever since and gained our trust back. It has been almost 2 years and she decides to break up and tells me she needs to figure out what she wants that the distance, stress and everything is getting to her. The thing is though we talked everyday almost all day I went out sometimes though and it made her mad cause I didnt tell her or talk to her and we fought a lot because of that. WE played xbox together but I was only seeing her like once a month towards the end. I told her now that I have a job and new car I'd see her 3 times a week when I can but she just didnt want to get back together :-/ My mom had cancer and I was just starting work so I was stressed to probably why I was so hard on her. She said she stopped having the same feelings but she still loved me, missed me and wanted to be with me. She wants to be friends but I'm very weak in this area when I lose a girl I love I suffer for weeks and I become obssessive almost. Sometimes she gets drunk and says how she needs to see me and everything and I cave in and in the morning she will be like I'm sorry about saying that last night etc. and it makes me feel like **** all day. I'm on the fenceI know shes young, these distance is far and our relationship was almost non existant before we broke up but I still love her and she says if she ever moves back she'll be with me in a heart beat but she has been talking to guys and ignoring me and its been pretty damn hard on me. I had to leave work the other day because I thought about it so much and my boss said I should get some rest. I just dont know if I should be her friend and be strong enough to wait and be wit her when she gets back or break it off and do NC. Only problem is all my friends and her friends want us together so they tell me to be strong and wait but i dunno if I can this is killing me. Pros: Her mom and moms boyfriend have been fighting so they might move back soon and shed be with me again. Been with her for 2 years and I love her and were perfect for each others She still loves and cares for me and misses me and wants to be with me Cons Shes in school for 2 more years She might NOT move back Shes 17 Her mom controls our relationship I don't know if I can trust her single 2 hours away :-/ I dont know if the relationship will ever be the same, or if well even keep the feelings until she moves back. or if she finds a bf and i find a gf. I guess it makes sense to just NC and leave her but something tells me I can get her back if I'm patient D: Edited June 30, 2012 by unknownuser
USMCHokie Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 ...we were fighting a lot and I was being a complete dick and I didnt allow her to go out and party etc. yet I did it... ...I went out sometimes though and it made her mad cause I didnt tell her or talk to her and we fought a lot because of that. She could have left because you weren't good to her...distance is just icing on the cake... And so when you were 21, you decided a 15 year old would be suitable...? That has statutory written all over it... Just get over it...please tell me you're not that desperate...
Author unknownuser Posted July 1, 2012 Author Posted July 1, 2012 not desperate just a weird thing that happened u think i wanted to date a 16 year old it was dumb... anyways i found she is cheating with me with a kid thats 21 and lives 20 hours away shes meetin him July 15th and she was a total bitch about it im completely done with her.
Recommended Posts