mr.SI Posted July 4, 2004 Posted July 4, 2004 hello everyone new to this site, and i wanted to to get everyones opinion so here goes.... i know you all hear about relationship taking time apart so here another one. okay i've been dating this girl for about a year and everything was great, until she moved backed to her familys house which is about a 2 hour drive from where i live. the first time i visited her she wanted me to meet her parents and she told me i was the 1st boyfriend she ever introduced to her parents. so i'm thinking wow this great. after a couple of weeks i call her one day and no response for the whole day, i'm thinking to myself what the hell is going on. i call her again the next day and she finally picks up her cell phone. i ask here what going on, she says that she been having alot of things on her mind and also family problems. then she says that when we talk we don't say much( thats b/c she works all day ) when she goes out she doen't think of me and that her parents don't think i'm the right one for her. see, the thing is that she has strong family values, her family is very important to her. with all that said ,she said she need time apart to sort out her feeling torwards me. this was very tough for me to hear, the thing is that we never had any problems in the relationship. so i respected her decision and it been a hell of a week for me!!! what should i do??? thanks
Kate Posted July 4, 2004 Posted July 4, 2004 please don't worry. i know it sounds insane. but in the end, the way you treated her when you were together will prevail. i promise, if you respect her space, she will be clear. simple as that. respect her space. it won't make sense, and you want answers from her, but there aren't any. i have a f.u.c.k.e.d up situation too and there are no answers at all...if you give them time -- lots -- you will see and so will they. don't forget who you are over this. it's so easy to do that.
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