Nukulus Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Well I think a lot of people are on here because they have or have had some crappy luck in the dating scene. I'm just interested in how people think their budding relationships go wrong and why. For myself, for whatever reason I've never had any luck beyond the initial get to know you phase (say dates 1-6ish) with women that I'm interested in, and because I tend to develop feelings for someone faster than I should it tends to hurt more than it should. I can't help how fast the feelings come on, they just do. When I like someone, I like someone- just kind of wear my heart on my sleeves. I should note that I don't act clingy so that's not the issue with stuff not working out. So anyway, I'm not sure exactly why things go the way they do. I'm starting to think I'm cursed ha. The girls I'm not that interested in I have to beat off with a stick, while the girls I am interested never seem to go anywhere. Anyways, this last one that didn't work out (she had just gotten out of a long distance relationship, wasn't ready to date, didn't want to lead me on, friendzoned blah blah blah ) was definitely a bummer. I really liked her. I'm about ready to give up for a while, it's not good for my mental health.
El Brujo Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Q: Why does dating suck? A: Because we're bull headed and we're trying to push back against change.
Algermas Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Because dating is actually a job interview where the female decides whether or not to give you the keys to her vagina.
YellowShark Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 I find dating really fun. Even the bad ones make for good stories. But what I have noticed is many women today are looking for the total package. The "George Clooney billionaire vampire who's musical, incredibly dangerous, and unbelievably romantic." And don't tell me isn't true. Of course all women aren't like that, thats a given.... but soooooo many are... I have discovered this after jumping back into the dating scene over the past year. It's an unrealistic goal made popular by reality TV and popular culture. And when you are not the billionaire playboy who is incredibly rich and dangerous who serenades them with a song on a dream date they dump your ass after a few dates. That said the best dates I have had have been with women who arent like this. Such as the current one I am dating. When she told me she thought Facebook was narcissistic and dumb, I knew I found a "keeper."
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