LittleMissSatin Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Hi again! Me and my ex dated for like 9 months, and broke up a little bit ago. I met a lot of his friends, and they thought I was cool. Tonight I was chatting with one of my exs best guy friends, and the guy said he was interested in me! This friend is a nice guy, but I told him it was way too soon after the breakup, and itd be really weird to date my exs best friend. The friend said that it was totally cool, he already talked to my ex and my ex did not care at all! I know it shouldnt bug me, but I am sad my ex didnt care at all about me dating his best friend. It makes me think that he never cared about me at all, if this soon after the breakup he wants me to date this friend! I thought guys were supposed to be jealous. Does this mean my ex never cared? Its only been 2 months! I wouldnt want him to date a friend of mine!
Art_Critic Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 It means he never discussed dating you with your ex.. He may have discussed you but he certainly left the part out about wanting to remove your panties. Most guys I know would never date a friends ex.. ever... its in the code book
SmileFace Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 I am not saying you should date his friend - crap his friend could be lying. However who cares if your ex never cared - he is an ex! Well to the point - dating a friend of an ex isn't a fun thing. Especially a best friend - how do you think that will work out?
Author LittleMissSatin Posted June 30, 2012 Author Posted June 30, 2012 I dont want to date him! The friend is nice but itd be way too weird. Plus the friend doesnt want kids and I do so I dont know why he thinks dating would be a good idea. But he for sure talked to my ex about it. The friend showed me the conversation and my ex was like Yeah go for it no problem buddy shes cool It makes me really sad that my ex is like that over me that he wouldnt care about seeing me with his best friend. Its even weird cause my ex dumped me. If he thinks Im so cool that his best friend should date me why dump me?
Sid6.7 Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Most guys I know would never date a friends ex.. ever... its in the code book Not exactly a book you find in the library is it, Art? It's not that he never cared. He just don't care about you now.
Author LittleMissSatin Posted June 30, 2012 Author Posted June 30, 2012 That makes me sad. I dont want to get back together but I always thought exs would have special places in each others hearts, and there would always be some little romantic feelings for one another even if it didnt work. If he doesnt care about me dating his friend it feels like he never had those feelings at all. Like I was unimportant to him that he could get rid of those feelings so easy and not be jealous. Super bums me out.
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