Hereiam007 Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 Hi I am posting my friends problem. I need help in what to say to her. She found out 3 months ago she received herpes from her boyfriend. She was ok with it bEcause this is who she LOVES. They been together for 10 months. Well, he dumps her because she doesn't submit to his step daughters and other things. She is a hopeless romantic in this situation. She wants to sue him, but at the same time, if he says sorry then she will run back to him. She is on and off with him. They are off now probably for two days then she will go back to him for couple days. It is an endless cycle. He is a retired officer and she is retired. They don't have children. He takes care of her ex's children. She died four years ago. My friend feels hurt , angry, manipulated. They argue about the same things. I guess the question is what words do I say to her to make her see the light or help her explain to her. Any reading material or links. Thank u!
Balzac Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 Your "friend" needs individual therapy. Encourage her to seek help. 1
Author Hereiam007 Posted June 29, 2012 Author Posted June 29, 2012 Your "friend" needs individual therapy. Encourage her to seek help. I think She is seeking help, but the help is not helping. She has a counselor.
Balzac Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 You cannot fix her. She seems to have lived many years in a troubled relationship. Sadly I might add.
Author Hereiam007 Posted June 29, 2012 Author Posted June 29, 2012 True, I can't fix her, but I can give her your wisdom forum
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