frozensprouts Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 I read Winterpain's new thread, and I thought it would be interesting for others to share their first posts so we can see how far they've come. Thought this might be pretty 'inspiring" fr those just starting out ( sorry for copying your idea Winterpain, it just seemed like such a good one) http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/separation-divorce/198845-am-i-totaly-out-my-mind ( my first post was in "separation/divorce"...shows you've we've come a long way) http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/separation-divorce/198845-am-i-totaly-out-my-mind
Owl Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 Here was my first post on LS...just a short time ago! LOL!!! http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/infidelity/49539-dealing-what-can-i-do-help-myself-get-over-past-affair
freestyle Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 FS, where is Winterpain's new thread? I always wondered whatever happened to him. never mind--I found it---*hanging head sheepishly*
Ninja'sHusband Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 I can't find my first thread.....but I am doing :bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny: Did it get deleted? The earliest one from your profile is this: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/other-man-woman/139244-ows-anger My ridiculous thread is here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/infidelity/314134-boundary-setting-question which isn't really very old at all. WW moves out on Sunday, my mother arrives the same day. We've done most of the mediation at this point..just some last pieces to get into place. We have yet to officially file...
jwi71 Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 Well...here is mine. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/separation-divorce/159343-over Long time ago indeed. Odd, but the man who wrote seems a complete stranger to me. I read my own post thinking of all the mistakes that guy was making. Proud I guess at far I've come, learned and grown. As for now, well yes FS...there is a happy ending as I am happily married to a great woman with a new 8 month old daughter. I completely rebuilt myself and my life. Its awesome
eeyore1981 Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 Here's my first thread. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/infidelity/143077-when-you-know-nothing So far, things seem to be working out the way I figured they would.
Author frozensprouts Posted June 29, 2012 Author Posted June 29, 2012 when i read my first post, i realize just what a mess i was...i was just desperate for someone, anyone to tell me things would be okay.at the time, if someone had told me that they'd work out for the best, i don't know if i would have believed them... interesting to see that, for the most part, things have worked out for us...maybe this will bring hope to new users...whether you reconcile or split up, things can and do get better 1
Radagast Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 It may have been deleted in the first great crash. Mine were. Just as well because one was something like "I wish my wife was dead" (referring to my now-ex-wife). I couldn't imagine back then that divorce plus kids finishing school was really all that was necessary to free me of her forever. When you're mired in the depths of a deeply unhappy situation you don't realise how close happiness can be. Well done to all who've overcome their desperate unhappiness and found their resolution, and hopefully their joy.
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