kaylan Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 If there is no attraction to where a guy couldn't cum, then how did he get it up for her in the first place? How does a guy get aroused if what you say is true? Doesn't make sense. If a guy can get it up, he can cum, unless he has whiskey dick. Im thinking you dont talk to enough men about sex. Getting a boner does not mean instant orgasm...especially if the guy isnt that into the chick and hes only half hard. Hell sometimes dudes are hard as a rock and cant get off for one reason or another. Read Elswyths response. Shes spot on.
nofool4u Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 (edited) Im thinking you dont talk to enough men about sex. Getting a boner does not mean instant orgasm...especially if the guy isnt that into the chick and hes only half hard. Thats not what I said. If a woman is unattractive enough that he can't cum, how is it he got it up in the first place? You are pinning this on the attractiveness of the woman. I wouldn't be able to get it up for Rosie O'Donnell. And I know Elswyth is spot on. It made my earlier point. I said that if a guy can get it up and can't come, as Elswyth put forth, there can be a problem that possibly needs treatment. Edited July 10, 2012 by nofool4u
kaylan Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 (edited) Again, arousal doesnt equal automatic orgasm for many men and many women...and these are sexually healthy people who wont cum for whatever reason. Could be anxiety, could be not being that into their partner, or it could be something else. They dont need a doctor like you are saying. Create a thread here and youll see plenty of guys have had sex before and not have been able to come in several instances for whatever reason. It happens dude. You seem to have limited knowledge on sexuality. Also, regarding the womans attractiveness....Ive known a couple guys who were able to get it up for women they didnt find much attractive just because they wanted to get laid...and guess what? They had trouble staying hard or acheiving orgasm....but they did get aroused. Arousal doesnt mean orgasm definitely will be acheived Edited July 10, 2012 by kaylan
nofool4u Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Again, arousal doesnt equal automatic orgasm for many men and many women...and these are sexually healthy people who wont cum for whatever reason. Could be anxiety, could be not being that into their partner, or it could be something else. They dont need a doctor like you are saying. Create a thread here and youll see plenty of guys have had sex before and not have been able to come in several instances for whatever reason. It happens dude. You seem to have limited knowledge on sexuality. Try to insult me all you want, but I know if I'm aroused, I can cum.
Curtis24 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Let's face it, many relationships are made out of convenience - money, protection, social status, etc. - and don't involve physical attraction on the woman's part. The woman must then fake orgasm to get the man to stay with her. BTW, still wonder why women often look down on men? Well, they must certainly think we are dumb as rocks...
nofool4u Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 BTW, still wonder why women often look down on men? Well, they must certainly think we are dumb as rocks... I'm sure they do think that if they fake it. Question is, if the sex is bad enough to fake it, and the guy is an idiot, what does that say about the woman in question?
Curtis24 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 So you fake it, and deprive yourself of a truly fulfilling relationship because of some fairy-tale crap you didn't stop believing when you grew up. So you think that wanting to have sex with someone you're attracted to is "fairy-tale crap"? If a woman doesn't orgasm with a man, its not because her expectations are too high. Its because she isn't attracted to him! (assuming she's not under mental stress)
Curtis24 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I'm sure they do think that if they fake it. Question is, if the sex is bad enough to fake it, and the guy is an idiot, what does that say about the woman in question? That depends. Some women exploit men. Others are forced into relationships because of the horrible circumstances of their life.
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