Brittanypolo4 Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 So, back story. Me and my ex had a pretty bad break up. Or, correction: I did all the wrong things and turned our break up bad. Basically he told me he didn't have any feelings anymore and we should just "be friends". I didn't want that. We had some big old fights, because we were both tryin to make each other uber jealous. So after a while of this, I just got mad and deleted him from my facebook and deleted his number from my phone. I didn't want anything to do with him. Flash forward 2 months to today. Out of nowhere, he texts me asking how I'm doing and stuff like that. An extreme part of me wanted to tell him how mad I still am and tell him to leave me alone. But I didn't. We just texted like we used to. Then, he tells me he texted me because he really misses me. I miss him like crazy but I didn't tell him that, because I'm just tired of everything being on his terms. I just told him it was good to hear from him. He was said "Yeah, kinda figured that..". and when I asked him what he meant he said "You don't miss me at all". I told him I didn't want to talk about that stuff right now and we should just catch up, and we talked for a while. But now I'm so confused. I've been on dates with a few people and was starting to get over him, but now he's fresh in my mind again. Do I want to pursue something again? Does he even want to? Or is this just some way to keep my attentions and play mind games with me? I'd always hoped he would miss me and realize that he still did have feelings for me.. but I don't know if I can trust him now. I mean, I used to be able to trust him with my life, but now? He was my first love and he broke my heart with no regard for how I felt at all. I still love him, I'll always love him. But enough to try this again, after he put me through so much? I just don't know what to do now. I'm so confused.
69ways Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 (edited) So, back story. Me and my ex had a pretty bad break up. Or, correction: I did all the wrong things and turned our break up bad. Basically he told me he didn't have any feelings anymore and we should just "be friends". I didn't want that. We had some big old fights, because we were both tryin to make each other uber jealous. So after a while of this, I just got mad and deleted him from my facebook and deleted his number from my phone. I didn't want anything to do with him. Flash forward 2 months to today. Out of nowhere, he texts me asking how I'm doing and stuff like that. An extreme part of me wanted to tell him how mad I still am and tell him to leave me alone. But I didn't. We just texted like we used to. Then, he tells me he texted me because he really misses me. I miss him like crazy but I didn't tell him that, because I'm just tired of everything being on his terms. I just told him it was good to hear from him. He was said "Yeah, kinda figured that..". and when I asked him what he meant he said "You don't miss me at all". I told him I didn't want to talk about that stuff right now and we should just catch up, and we talked for a while. But now I'm so confused. I've been on dates with a few people and was starting to get over him, but now he's fresh in my mind again. Do I want to pursue something again? Does he even want to? Or is this just some way to keep my attentions and play mind games with me? I'd always hoped he would miss me and realize that he still did have feelings for me.. but I don't know if I can trust him now. I mean, I used to be able to trust him with my life, but now? He was my first love and he broke my heart with no regard for how I felt at all. I still love him, I'll always love him. But enough to try this again, after he put me through so much? I just don't know what to do now. I'm so confused. As you messed up in the beginning of the break up I would stick to NC, it might be a while b4 you hear again from him but you need to get a grip and fight temptation to response again. The fact that you are making progress so fast shows a lot. He said he misses you , not wants you back,let him miss you more. After all, he lost his feelings not you I bet he disappears again if you give in and you did good to response win such a way to his miss me question. Edited June 29, 2012 by 69ways
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