scooter62788 Posted July 4, 2004 Posted July 4, 2004 The other day, I fingered my girlfriend for the first time and it was also my first time fingering a girl period. We were kinda in a tight spot so I couldn't do it very well but I was wondering if anyone had any tips on how to finger a girl or finger her so she really likes it. I know the ladies on this site will really help me but the guys will have good input too. Thanks Again! Bye!
wishfullthinkig Posted July 5, 2004 Posted July 5, 2004 Its not very hard to explain but it aint easy either. The best thing i can tell u (at least from a guys point of view) is when you are fingering her pay a lot of attention to her face and her body.Every woman is different some like it slow and long and some like it fast . Just watch her. Her body will let u know if she likes it or not even if she might be embarresed to say so. Try a few different things move your finger different ways and see which one she responds to most. It does help if u use your tongue as well or carress other parts of her body that way she feels more than one emotion and she can just enjoy all of it instead of worrying if u like what u doing.
einahpets Posted July 5, 2004 Posted July 5, 2004 i remember when i first started getting intimate w/guys they had no idea about the clit. make yourself real familiar w/it and you will be sure to make her happy. make sure you either buy lube or make sure you have some saliva or her own lubrication on your fingers. that friction of a dry finger on a dry clit is not good. so make sure it is wet but not too wet or she won't feel anything. slow circles on/around the clit are good. like wishfull said, make sure you pay attension to the way she breaths, moves, sounds. any change in these maybe a good or bad thing. you will learn how to tell which with time. don't move your finger all over the place really fast. go slow and when you found a place that feels good to her, keep with it. there is nothing more frustrating than when a guy moves his finger to a different place just when you are about to get off. be patient. if she is new to orgasms it may take 30-45 min to make her come. make sure you are in a comfortable situation so she can relax. the key is to be relaxed, don't fell pressured. number 1 - ask her. don't ask her "how 'bout here. does that feel good. how about that? does that feel good?" but ask her to help you out. have her guide your hand w/ her own to whatever spot feels good. have her tell you when you hit a good spot. tell her not to be afraid to tell you what feels good and what doesn't.
Romantic Shadow Posted July 5, 2004 Posted July 5, 2004 Listen the best thing you can do is ask her how she likes it. Some girls as you can tell like you circling her clit but my girlfriend she liked it really hard. She just wanted me to stick my whole two fingers up there. so it really all depends on how they like it but yes the clit usually does it.
outofgas311 Posted July 5, 2004 Posted July 5, 2004 one thing you have to get about fingering, it's just like anything else. you have to do it at least a little bit to be good at it at all, just like kissing. if your girl isn't loose, then this should be nothing. if you want to make her go nuts, there is a simple technique that takes care of the clit and satisfies everything else. use two fingers, and go all the way in, messing around everywhere. but here's what gets it. when you are coming back, and about to go back up in, curl your fingers. it's almost like a "come here" motion, and you do it on the clit, which should be right as you're coming out with your fingers. watch her face and how she responds to know how hard to do it. don't do it to brag about though, do it because you care about her and want her to feel good. if you do a good job chances are she'll love it and want to do it more, which is good news for you. good luck.
LatsyrcSC Posted July 5, 2004 Posted July 5, 2004 The above post is DEFINITELY true.......great tip. The "come here" motion with the fingers sends me over the edge especially when he's licking my clit at the same time. Just be careful, because the last guy I was with had really big fingers and it hurt. So I told him just to bend it back in an L shape vs doing the whole come here action where your fingers bend all the way back to your hand.
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