rezvan Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Hi, i hope u take time to read this and if u like reply me. It is really hard to believe someone you love doesn’t love you; when you hear him telling I’ve never loved you and will never do…. in this moment many cry or fight with him or even deny everything to save themselves and reduce the incoming pressure, but let me ask you this question what would you do if something like this happened to you? I completely remember that day I’ve never even dreamed…let me tell you everything from the beginning ;I’m a fresh man, a university student ,I loved a boy in our university but he has never ever loved me, unfortunately I couldn’t understand this until that day .you ask why? Well I have to say that he used to treat in such way that made everyone believe that he likes me but it wasn’t real. One day we talked on the net & he finished everything he finished whatever I thought and ruined everything I made in my mind. I didn’t cry, I didn’t shout and didn’t even deny everything. I was shocked, I sat on the ground and tried to get out of that situation but I couldn’t even separate reality and dream, everything was mixed together. I admitted everything that was the only thing I’ve done as a reaction to something he’s done. Since that day I’ve been telling myself you’re a looser, you made a big mistake; you have nothing else to lose because he’s taken all you had from you. Yes he’s taken me from myself, I’m ashamed of myself and I can’t forgive myself any way. I see him sometimes in university and I can’t handle the situation because seeing him reminds me that day.I think i can not see him again because i start to cry i wan to know how i can handle this sittuation.now only thing i want to is help.plz send me your advices because i really need them. thanx
Philosoraptor Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Right now you need to treat yourself well and foster your own growth. Join a club, find a new hobby, volunteer, etc. Just do anything that will make you feel good. It does hurt, but if you work on taking your focus off the past and putting it on yourself right now you'll find that healing will become easier. But pick yourself up. No matter what happened or what he says you are still a wonderful person worthy of all of the love and happiness this world has to offer. 1
Author rezvan Posted June 30, 2012 Author Posted June 30, 2012 Hi,thanx for your advice,i'll certainly use it.I have a question and i want you as a man to answer me.I've thought a lot but i couldn't understand why he would act like someone who likes me and then talk to me in a different way and specify that he doesn't love me.do you know why??????? plz answer me
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