oncloud9 Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 So theres this guy that i started talking to around last year and i knew he was single and he was obviously into me but we lost contact with each other. About a month ago he msgs me we exchange numbers and we started talking, one of the first questions i asked him was if he had a girlfriend. He replied "I did but she was a liar" so i automatically thought hmm ok. As the duration of the month past we talked and texted everyday and we seen each other about two or three times and i started to have feelings for him. When we were together he'd hold my hand, hold me, kiss me and make me feel special. One day recently i thought id add him on fb so I found his page and i noticed a girl posted on his wall that she loves him and im pretty sure thats his girlfriend. Im so confused, If he has a girlfriend why is he spending all his free time with me and why would he reinsert himself back into my life? Does he even care about her ifeelings if hes doing this? I dnt know what to think or what to do now..
KathyM Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Ask him about it. Tell him you saw someone on his fb page that appears to have strong feelings for him, and you want to know what the deal is with that because you don't want to invest your time and emotions into a relationship where there's someone else in the picture that he has romantic feelings for. You need to get an explanation from him before jumping to conclusions. It's possible this girl has a thing for him, but he's not really interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with her, so you really do need to get his explanation on what this means. 1
Author oncloud9 Posted June 28, 2012 Author Posted June 28, 2012 Ehh an explanation does seem necessary but I mean I dnt want to seem weird asking him about that. I assumed that's his girlfriend because there's more then one post frm her over the course of many many months and he is aware of them because he likes them yet he never comments so im not rlly sure whats up.
KathyM Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Ehh an explanation does seem necessary but I mean I dnt want to seem weird asking him about that. I assumed that's his girlfriend because there's more then one post frm her over the course of many many months and he is aware of them because he likes them yet he never comments so im not rlly sure whats up. The only way to find out is to ask. It may not be what it seems. She could be just a good friend. She could be someone that has a crush on him, but he doesn't want that kind of relationship from her. Or he could be a player that is stringing along a couple of girls at the same time. You need to ask him about her and see what he says.
stillafool Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 OP why do you think it is more weird to ask him about this than to ask a bunch of strangers on a Forum. Just ask him if he has a gf and who this girl is? You have a right to know before you go further with this guy. 4
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