Trying to move on from my affair

[Steen719]

BetrayedH - I think you're one of the few who can put the bitterness aside and still be constructive. Thanks for pointing out the other forum!!!! Sorry for all you guys who's relationships are clearly not working out, but judging by some of the bitterness on here I think its probably for the best they didn't. Maybe some WS had a lucky escape when you guys broke up I guess.

 

You have that right, anyway. It is better we did not end up with a person with the morals of a gnat. What you have wrong is that we are the ones with the lucky escape. We have the possibility of a future with an honorable partner. Anyone who gets our Xes most likely does not. Pity them if you are going to feel for anyone.

[DuckSoup]

Cheaters can name-call all they want, but adding insult to injury by cheating on their spouse and then calling them "bitter" doesn't change the fact that they are cheaters and created their own mess.

[nofool4u]

Artie, this is an obvious lie. Your posts have BS written all over them. I imagine when your D-Day happened, your WS didn't even want to think about sticking around and trying to work things out with you. She probably couldn't get out of the door fast enough. That's why you're here, being all bitter and chewed up.

 

And if this were true about Artie, you don't suppose that cheating tends to piss people off. You say it as if he wouldn't have had a right to be "bitter".

 

Oh, and you can dispense with the "bitter" lames. It says more about the person saying it as opposed to the person that despises cheaters.

 

No, it's being bitter.

 

And if this were the case, then they are the way they are because they had to deal with a cheater. Nobody just becomes "bitter", or angry. Being cheated on will piss people off. Just like if someone came and spit in your face, you'd wipe it off and hand them a flower and say "peace"

Edited July 6, 2012 by nofool4u