daniellethedisaster Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 I just wanted to post an update, and hopefully this will be the last time I am on this site again. FINGERS CROSSED. Not that it wasn't helpful at all or anything, but I am happy. Happy. Read my previous antics if you want to know about what happened etc.. but I just wanted to let everyone know that we are back together. And that we are happy. And that sometimes things happen that you may not understand or want, but there is always the bigger picture and sometimes it takes a break away from a situation to make you realize it is worth fighting for. At least that's how I feel. So good luck to everyone, and I hope the best for all of you. Wish me luck! Much love! 3
Pod81 Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 I've read your story and to be honest, I'm a little leery of people maturing/changing in only a matter of weeks. At the same time, I don't wanna be the grouch that rains on your parade either so I sincerely wish you two the best of luck! Definitely try to resolve any issues between you and your bf instead of just sweeping it under the rug. Set some boundaries, work on the communication between you two and hopefully, he won't take you for granted in the future! I'm hoping that I get the same ending eventually, but I have a feeling it won't happen for close to a year (if it does at all)
whoknows11 Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 I just wanted to post an update, and hopefully this will be the last time I am on this site again. FINGERS CROSSED. Not that it wasn't helpful at all or anything, but I am happy. Happy. Read my previous antics if you want to know about what happened etc.. but I just wanted to let everyone know that we are back together. And that we are happy. And that sometimes things happen that you may not understand or want, but there is always the bigger picture and sometimes it takes a break away from a situation to make you realize it is worth fighting for. At least that's how I feel. So good luck to everyone, and I hope the best for all of you. Wish me luck! Much love! Either way youre very lucky. Its only been a month since my ex said she wanted a "break". It seems like she ll never come back seeing how shes been acting towards me.
Treasa Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Good luck, but as someone who was in your shoes and was with a man VERY SIMILAR to yours who broke up with me SIX times, please make this the last attempt. Give it your all, be the person you really are, and if he dumps you again, please just walk away. Don't waste six years of your life like I did holding onto something that wasn't worth it.
KatZee Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 I really hope for your sake this is the last time you split. I'm saying this because of your now on again boyfriend's past track record for dumping you, and flip flopping. My ex was a classic flip flopper, and I can tell you that people who act impulsively, who flip flop, and who act out in a rash way DO NOT CHANGE. Especially after only two weeks. Nothing has happened here to make him change. And because you keep taking him back OVER AND OVER again, believe me, he won't change. He has no reason to, you'll just go back regardless of how many times he feels like dumping you. (And I'm extremely worried about your previous posts that say you're an insecure person. You're the type to accept ANY kind of behavior just as long as he throws some crumbs your way. You're worth more than this, I hope you know.) I know you're happy, but please proceed with caution. I don't see this as a type of person who is stable enough to be a father figure to your child, and I can absolutely see him pulling this again.
whoknows11 Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 She'll be back. Idk, i dont see it happening. Im just losing hope now. My story is under my threads. Itll give you insight on what happened.
KatZee Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Idk, i dont see it happening. Im just losing hope now. My story is under my threads. Itll give you insight on what happened. I don't think that response was for you. The "she'll be back" refers to OP being back here on LS.
whoknows11 Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 I don't think that response was for you. The "she'll be back" refers to OP being back here on LS. Yeah i realized that after, but couldnt edit it. Wasnt thinking at first. Sorry about that.
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