WeAllMightBeNuts Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Should a person be alone for a certain period of time after ending a relationship before entering a new/exclusive one? Thanks for any opinions.
sunlover Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 I think that its best if people take some time to "collect" themselves before they enter a new relationship. But of course circumstances might not let thst happen 1
mortensorchid Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 I am not sure about this or not. Because I have seen people constantly on the rebound and they seem to get on just fine that way. And I have seen people who get out of long term relationships / marriages and would never think of doing it again. I think it is different for men and women, however. Women in general seem to take the time out to rebuild. Men seem to benefit more from a marriage / relationship than women do, in that studies show it improves a man's general health, happiness and longevity while women seem to stay stagnant whether they remain single or not. 1
funlady Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 I think it depends on the situation the person is in. Has the relationship been over for a long time before the actual break-up (such as multiple separations/cheating etc)? My separation was very friendly and we both agreed to date other people pretty much right away. Others may benefit from some alone time... Just my opinion... I always think.. "Would I date myself or am I just one hot mess?" 1
Author WeAllMightBeNuts Posted June 29, 2012 Author Posted June 29, 2012 I tend to think the majority should be alone for at least a month of and zero contact with any exes. Zero. Else the relationship is doomed from what I've seen over and over with my own experiences and how others' relationships played out. Be alone, happy with yourself, then the next relationship has the highest chance of long-term success.
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