justrandomchicks1 Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 Well I'm wondering... I mean like I get sometimes that dressing a certain way leaves that impression. I dress in revealing tops but I NEVER wear shorts or tight jeans... Maybe it's nevada. But I've been approached for like that type industry prostitution... In all honesty when people say that I'm a hooker. I find it funny when people say I'm like that. Because I never do anything to be considered a hooker. There have been guys who wanted to date me and the like... But I'm very picky... Like I almost don't like guys how much my type is so specific. Plus I'm the 'sheltered kind'... Plus I have standards with sexual relations of which I don't plan to break until out of college... I was homeschooled so yea... But anyhow the thing is to me. Like I've never been with a guy in any way. Never had a bf never dated never been kissed never had a sexual relationship in general etc... I'm only 18.. I mean isn't a hooker someone who sleeps around? So I mean if someone like dresses like a more revealing... What's it got to do with that? I dress that way to attract the opposite sex because that's what I'm attracted to. But that doesn't mean I want to sleep with everyone. Also, I have a bad case of gender identity confusion I guess you could say. I didn't feel like a female until 4 years ago. Which was when I became larger chested... I was small with a large chest. I always liked being small. And the women I grew up around wear tops to accentuate their delicate frames... That's all I've been comfortable in.. It's how I am comfortable with my female identity kinda a part of it... Idk I mean if it's really apart of just who you are how can it at all corelate with being a hooker?
Dire Wolf Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 your face, I am being honest Seriously? Hooker-face. Is that a real thing? Anyway, based on the OP I'd guess it has something to do with being well-endowed on the upper deck and showing them off at the same time. Are you in a sketchy part of town when you're getting these comments?
Author justrandomchicks1 Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 my face looks like a hookers? huh? Oh you mean I'm wearing too much make up... No It's actually just the effect... I think it's it's anne on fotoflexer deal.... I am only wearing eyeliner mascara and lipstick. It takes 7-11 minutes... This is actually not how I go out either. I don't wer eyeliner... More anyway it seems no one looks at my face it's like my torso. That's what people seem to think just because of it I'm some sort of slut but s said before I'm a virgin to everything...
Author justrandomchicks1 Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 Seriously? Hooker-face. Is that a real thing? Anyway, based on the OP I'd guess it has something to do with being well-endowed on the upper deck and showing them off at the same time. Are you in a sketchy part of town when you're getting these comments? yes I am actually always downtown but different ones like I was in different cities get the same response. My mom got the same response a few times too...
Mallow Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 People will always have some form of judgement, it's life. The opinions of others should not get to you. If you're wearing overly revealing clothing (short skirts, excessive makeup, long V neck's) then it's the reasoning as to why people would assume that you're more promiscuous. I dress conservatively, and at times I still get negative comments. Some people just lack class, you shouldn't assume it has anything to do with you or your attire.
Dire Wolf Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 If the comments really bother you, I'd recommend dressing more conservatively. Aside from that I don't think there's much you can do. Take it as a compliment - you're in high demand.
zengirl Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 Can you be considered a hooker? No. But clearly you CAN be mistaken for a hooker, if it's happened. It sounds like the reason for that is the location and the outfit -- consider dressing more conservatively if it bothers you or just brush it off if it doesn't.
yongyong Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 Compliment? ROFL. hitting on by guys are one thing but getting offered money for sex is totally different. If the comments really bother you, I'd recommend dressing more conservatively. Aside from that I don't think there's much you can do. Take it as a compliment - you're in high demand.
Dire Wolf Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 Compliment? ROFL. hitting on by guys are one thing but getting offered money for sex is totally different. Always look at the bright side
yongyong Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 watch this Dave Chapelle Killing Them Softly Part 6 - YouTube If the comments really bother you, I'd recommend dressing more conservatively. Aside from that I don't think there's much you can do. Take it as a compliment - you're in high demand.
Author justrandomchicks1 Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 yeah I guess when I go in those areas I should change attire or not go there. I didn't think of it that way like the area. It's just I always lived close to downtown's seedy locations it seems yongyong that's a funny vid
TaraMaiden Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 ....anyway it seems no one looks at my face it's like my torso. ... Ok, let's make this real: They're eyeing your breasts. If you have a generous pair, do what a friend of mine did: She had a couple of t-shirts printed: "Oh how rude of me; I really must stop my breasts staring at your eyes!" Worked like a charm. It dissuaded those with a conscience, and sorted the gents from the idiots. the idiots just laughed....
Dire Wolf Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 watch this Dave Chapelle Killing Them Softly Part 6 - YouTube EXACTLY. Oh Chapelle circa 2000...please come back to us.
yongyong Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 honestly, it's really dumb to talk about such things. it's just obvious let me ask you. Two different men are going to approach you in dark parking lot to borrow your phone. One guy is covered with tattoos and has piercings, baggy jeans and tank top. he walks like a thug. One guy seems normal. regular hair cut. just khakis and shirt. Now, tell me you are not going to judge them based on their appearance because you don't like getting judged by your attire and makeup. now you understand how stupid this discussion is.
FitChick Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 I love Dave Chapelle! I'm going to have to watch the other parts later.
Author justrandomchicks1 Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 I probably would not talk to either because they're men and I'm in a dangerous situation as the weaker sex... But I get your pointhonestly, it's really dumb to talk about such things. it's just obvious let me ask you. Two different men are going to approach you in dark parking lot to borrow your phone. One guy is covered with tattoos and has piercings, baggy jeans and tank top. he walks like a thug. One guy seems normal. regular hair cut. just khakis and shirt. Now, tell me you are not going to judge them based on their appearance because you don't like getting judged by your attire and makeup. now you understand how stupid this discussion is.
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