Author maysj18 Posted June 28, 2012 Author Posted June 28, 2012 OP how about answering this question? I was talking to this chick online. she is art major and knows french. so I brought up this french painter I only saw on TV. she asked me if I liked him. I told her 'I like his style' so I don't have knowledge in arts but I told her that she can relates to me. I don't mind going to art gallery with her though. So in your analogy, I am a guy who lies just to get that pusxy, is that right? If you don't agree with people, you tell them straight. you tell them things you like and you don't like without Thinking because it's more about honesty than the relationship. Am I right? YOU said you lie to get sex, not me. But something on that level is completely irrelevant, even though I probably wouldn't lie about it. My boyfriend is huge into music, and even though he is well aware we have different tastes, I'll still listen to his music and he'll still listen to mine. We're both open-minded and can appreciate our different tastes, much like you with your new girl. If you don't care for that artist's work, saying what you said still really isn't a big deal. It's just art. You're really comparing apples and oranges. Lying about liking a certain style of music, art, etc. to connect with someone is completely different than lying about your feelings in order to manipulate a person into doing what you want them to do.
turt Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 You just need to look for someone who is looking for the same thing. Why don't you just ask your boyfriend what his intent is and explain why you are asking? Not every guy is looking to pick up friends with benefits.
2.50 a gallon Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 I am retired, in my 45 plus years of dating, I only got emotionally involved with around half a dozen women. Which means that I have had many dozens of F-W-B's. Each and every one of which I treated with all the respect a man would give any girl friend. I took them to movies, concerts, dinners, dancing, (a couple of them were my dance partners). I cooked them gourmet meals, candles and romance included, and served most of them breakfast in bed. To be blunt, once I got them in bed I wanted to keep them there as long as possible, at least all through the night. The only difference was most knew from the start that I probably was incapable of loving and marrying them. Many of them kept coming back for years.
RedRobin Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 If the guy wants to bang a chick that night, he should talk about things that couples do (walking on the beach, cooking together, learning dance etc) and hide his real intentions. When I want to just bang a girl next time, I won't tell her 'hey I just want to sleep with you tonight' because that's not what women want to hear. So women just can't blame on guys about lying. you just want to get fxcked by that guy but as soon as he talks about his real intention, your puxsy dries. Am I wrong????????????? There are plenty of women who aren't looking for something serious. If you have to lie to get women to sleep with you, then you must not be very attractive... for one. You probably aren't even that interesting to talk to. Not sure what kind of 'victory' you achieved. It's like going to a car dealership and stealing a car because you are too stupid and lazy to earn the money to buy one. Whoop-de-do. 1
yongyong Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 When I said 'lying', I didn't mean about something serious like your background, job, criminal history etc. She starts talking about cats. you really hate them. Are you going to agree with her OR just tell her straight 'no I don't like cats, they are annoying' Your dealership example sounds very stupid. I will give you different example. It's like a woman walks into the dealership and a sales guy throw sugar coated comments to make the sale. (obviously, he can't lie about total loss, water damage etc) he will exaggerate little about its positive side and kind of hide about its negative side. This is nothing WRONG and everyone knows that. It's your responsibility to have some knowledge for making a good purchase. I see guys throwing 'you are beautiful' to fatties just to hit her that night. If she was intelligent enough, she would understand what his motive is and be careful about getting to know him. There are plenty of women who aren't looking for something serious. If you have to lie to get women to sleep with you, then you must not be very attractive... for one. You probably aren't even that interesting to talk to. Not sure what kind of 'victory' you achieved. It's like going to a car dealership and stealing a car because you are too stupid and lazy to earn the money to buy one. Whoop-de-do.
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