ahmedelsaka Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 hey guys, My best friend, he is older than me by a year, me and him used to be together playing around as kids 24/7, but by time, we changed, he started hanging out with drugees and other ****, and now, he stopped, and we hang out alot now, and also, he hangs out with my older brother (he is 4 years older than me) and now, he listens to my brother too much, and acts all responsible, for an example, we set up my dads hookah, and my brother and my best friend started smoking from it, and i didnt smoke with them as my brother was around, so then, when my brother left, i wanted to just try it, and my best friend told me :no, your bro told me not to let you" and he is hanging and doing lots of stuff like that with him, and he does what my brother tells hiim to, and i know that he is doing the right thing, but just the concept, we are 2 teenagers, we do this, and why does he go acting like that? I mean, we are best friends, what the hell? we should be able to do stuff like that together...
revenant Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Sounds like hes trying to protect you in a way though it must seem weird if he suddenly talks to your brother more than you. Don't push too hard, if he's still your good friend mention how you feel to him but try not to get worked up when you do. If he really is the responsible young adult he's trying to be he'll listen and talk it through with you.
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