Confused92 Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 I was at uni and this girl from the place I used to work started teexting me, and being quite flirty. Within about 5 texts she had asked if I was still going out with my ex. Im not! So we texted every day for like a month, and she was saying we "should have a movie night ;)" and another text she sent was "im in the shower ;)". So to me, all these texts plus other ones, indicated she liiked me. So when I came home she texted me all the time again, and I went back to work where I used to work and again she carried on! so It came to a sunday night after my first weekend at work and she had been out with friends and text me at 10pm, and i didnt expect to hear from her. Then on monday she said "you wont see me again now untill im back from holiday" (she went the following sunday, but she wasnt working at weekend and I wasnt working Untill weekend). So I sugggested doing something in the week, but she said she was really busy with uni work and nephews and stuff . but she said "she would like that if we could" and "if not before deffo after"...so then i didnt really hear from her all week, and same when she got back untill i text her. then we went work on saturday and sunday and she text me a lot before and after worrk.. and she spent her whole break 30 mins in a dusty room chatting to me while I moved loads of shelves and stuff, rather than sitting in the staff room we left it as she would let me know when she wants to go out. But is she waiting for me to ask her again or what? I dont know if I should or not?
Philosoraptor Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 Pick a specific date and time and ask her to go out then. If she says no then ask her to provide a different time. I dunno if games are being played here but this will get to the bottom of it.
Author Confused92 Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 Pick a specific date and time and ask her to go out then. If she says no then ask her to provide a different time. I dunno if games are being played here but this will get to the bottom of it. thanks for the advice, but what im confused with as well is that i have text her a few times first and we text earlier and didnt reply. is it best to ask her after a string of continuous texts, or just out of the blue? how would you word it?
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