Zezhit Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 So me and this girl are progressing..we are in love with each other and are going to start dating soon.My question is,will i eventually get bored of her ? I dont want to ! gahhhh ! I see that many people get bored of their partners,but still love them deeply. answer my question pls !
momiss2 Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 Every relationship can be boring sometimes. All relationships take work in finding new and interesting things to do, appreciating each other for who they are, listening and validating one another and communication... as well as numerous other skills. Enjoy the relationship and keep the interest going.
TaraMaiden Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 So me and this girl are progressing..we are in love with each other and are going to start dating soon.My question is,will i eventually get bored of her ? I dont want to ! gahhhh ! I see that many people get bored of their partners,but still love them deeply. answer my question pls ! Yes of course. And - No, of course not. A relationship is a constantly moving, living thing. It needs maintenance, care, feeding, sustaining, nourishing and bloody hard work to maintain the interest and all the original factors. It will change, of course, it must. For the better? For the worse? That, my dear - is up to you.
Author Zezhit Posted June 28, 2012 Author Posted June 28, 2012 thanks so much guys ! so basically i have to take care of our love...rekindle it all the time...like a burning candle
TaraMaiden Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Relationships evolve. They change, and occasionally, the dynamics shift. At times, she will demand and deserve priority, and at others, you will. the important is to seek a happy compromise, a healthy give and take, a balance in all things, even though at times it may seem weighted for or against you. Be aware that in all relationships, there is always one who 'gives' more than the other. But the secret of making this a happy and willing agreement, is to 'give' whatever is necessary in return, in order to enable the 'giver' to be understood, appreciated and loved. Relationships are founded on, and supported by a powerful triumvirate of essential qualities: Trust Communication Respect (for self and partner). If one of these, like the legs of a tripod, is damaged, faulty, weak, bent, broken or - fatally - missing all together, then the Relationship CANNOT SURVIVE. Even 'repairing' the damage will leave a scar.... Rather like buying an expensive $200 pure angora sweater and subsequently finding a hole on the front... you can repair it, but you know the damage is done... you know the jumper is not the way bought it, and any repair - to anything - compromises the strength, and undermines its intrinsic value. Take care of each other, put each other first.
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