honda1268 Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 I have been married for 24 years. My husband and I use to have great sex. Now Well... He has refused to go down on me and His fingers have stopped working! It's quick and to the point. I have tried many things; lotions, candy, ect. I am a very clean person. He just doesn't want to do it! Help I need more than just 3-5 mins then "was that good for you?" or "man... you worn me out". Really?! I have talked to him but it's getting worst.
Author honda1268 Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 I use to have a few but he wanted me to get rid of them because of the kids getting older. So I did. I guess i feel it takes the relationship out of the marriage. Then why be married?
reboot Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 I use to have a few but he wanted me to get rid of them because of the kids getting older. So I did. I guess i feel it takes the relationship out of the marriage. Then why be married? Well now, that's an entirely different question. I thought you were asking about sex.
Author honda1268 Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 Well now, that's an entirely different question. I thought you were asking about sex. To me they both went hand in hand. We satisfied each other in and out of the bedroom. Now it seems like a one way street. I would love to bring him back to the days were we did anything, everything, and anywhere. I just dont know how. So it's not just about sex.
The Blue Knight Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 To me they both went hand in hand. We satisfied each other in and out of the bedroom. Now it seems like a one way street. I would love to bring him back to the days were we did anything, everything, and anywhere. I just dont know how. So it's not just about sex. Well if he went from "anything, everything, and anywhere" to wham bam thank you mam he's either really, really stupid about women, or he's really, really lazy. Not to be overly personal, but what do you mean he "refuses to go down on you?" Are you asking and he's just flat out saying no? Or is it a case of he just stopped doing it?
SarahRose Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 he sounds very very lazy what you need to do is not let him get his until you get yours. insist that he go down on you and insist on foreplay to your satisfaction, or you just roll over and go to sleep and he does not get his. it will only take a couple times for him to realise ding ding ding he actually have to participate in sex and not just take. the reason he is wham bam get his, is because you are letting him.
todreaminblue Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 I have been married for 24 years. My husband and I use to have great sex. Now Well... He has refused to go down on me and His fingers have stopped working! It's quick and to the point. I have tried many things; lotions, candy, ect. I am a very clean person. He just doesn't want to do it! Help I need more than just 3-5 mins then "was that good for you?" or "man... you worn me out". Really?! I have talked to him but it's getting worst. have you asked him? if you have what is his reply??....deb
SoMovinOn Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Is your post real? I just read on another part of this forum that all married people always have sex!!
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