Ali Posted October 16, 2000 Posted October 16, 2000 I was wondering,guys, if you had a girlfriend and then you met another girl who you started getting to know better and then let's say you somehow got the feeling that she liked you as more than a friend, would you change your behavior toward her or not? or let's say that you met her in the summer at work and you guys go to different schools, would you keep in touch with her (through the internet for example)? or would you feel like since you have a girlfriend, and you think that this other girl likes you that you shouldn't keep in touch with her. i would appreciate your responses. Thanks.
Taressa Posted October 16, 2000 Posted October 16, 2000 Entertaining the thought of pursuing a new girl signals a problem with the love for the current woman. If the man has any character at all he will be honest with himself and make a decision to either work and save his current relationship or to kindly, honestly, leave the current relationship. It would be disrespectful and cowardly to keep one woman on hold while he pursues the other.
Tony T Posted October 16, 2000 Posted October 16, 2000 Treat other people like you would want to be treated. It really wouldn't be cool to lead this girl on. Be straight up with her. Let her know you have a girlfriend. If she just wanted to be your buddy, that would be one thing. But if you really feel she wants more, just stay clear of her. Why do I somehow get the feeling that you would like to keep in touch with her as insurance just in the event something happens with your current relationship? It seems if you were truly happy with your girlfriend, you would not have to ask this question. Pick the one you want and commit to it. If another lady likes you more than just a friend, stay away for HER sake. Breaking hearts is not nice.
Ali Posted October 16, 2000 Posted October 16, 2000 hi, thanks for your responses, i guess i should have mentioned that i am the "other girl" and i'm kinda getting the feeling that this guy that i like doesn't want to keep in touch with me and i was wondering if it was because he had a girlfriend and had gotten the feling that i liked him.
Paulie Posted October 16, 2000 Posted October 16, 2000 Gee...it kinds of seems like you tried to dupe us into giving you advice from "the other angle." Why didn't you tell us this from the beginning?
michelle Posted October 16, 2000 Posted October 16, 2000 i guess i just thought that it was kind of obvious, but i realize now that it wasnt, sorry about the mix up.
Ali(Michelle, that's my middle name- sorry for all Posted October 16, 2000 Posted October 16, 2000 i guess i just thought that it was kind of obvious, but i realize now that it wasnt, sorry about the mix up.
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