Wingedisis Posted July 4, 2004 Posted July 4, 2004 It has been 6 months since my break up of a 5 year realtionship. I have tried to avoid meeting anyone & have really concentrated on getting myself together. Then I met him! A great guy, respectful to me & just a well rounded individual that happens to be the one person I have met that I had some attraction & many things in common with. We went out twice He told me he wanted me around for a long time. I was stunned how things just seem to flow. It was difficult to hold back the attraction was so strong & the interaction was even better. Then on our 2nd date I had a most wonderful time & the mood seemed right & I gently kissed him on the lips (No Tounge ok People lol) and he looked stunned I was so embarassed I asked what was wrong & he said he felt it wasn't the right time yet & that he respected me to much to rush (even though he already introduced me to his parents it was just a peck I swear) So embarassed as I was I told him I was going to go home & that he didn't have to walk me to my car. Once I got to my car I felt so childish for leaving the way I did so I called him & asked him to come down. We talked about it, hugged several times & worked it out. I went home. The next day he didn't call me which I found odd he always called to make sure I got home ok since I live over an hour away. I called & spoke with his mother she told me he was at work & I asked her to deliver a message to him for me she said she would. He never called, I let it going thinking he was busy & left it at that. Today is his birthday, I called this am & spoke with his father who said he was still sleeping, I told him I was calling to wish his son a happy birthday & asked him to relay the message & to have him call me back. It is 8pm & he has yet to call me. Did I do something so terrible I didn't think a peck would freak him out I left in a hurry but I was embarassed. I spent 3 hours with him after the event at his request & we spoke about it & I believed everything was ok. Now I feel so bad. I really like him & hope he will call but I think that the 2 calls I made was enough. I am not one who plays games but I don't want to scare him. I know I haven't spent that much time with him but we had such a strong connection & I wish I could do something to find out whats wrong but my hands are tied. What do you suggest? I am at a loss.
Romantic Shadow Posted July 5, 2004 Posted July 5, 2004 listen it is nothing big im sure. that has happened to me before also and i found out that she was just as embarassed as me. im sure he is just nervous to talk to you after what he said some guys can say everything is alrigt and not mean it. if he hasnt called you yet then im sorry but if he is as great as you say he is then he will have the heart to call you and get over it.
Swamp Posted July 5, 2004 Posted July 5, 2004 I agree. He seems to have been embarrassed. If I liked a girl, and after the 2nd date she leaned forward and gave me a peck, I would definitely feel nice about it. He seems a little off. You already met his parents at the 2nd date? He lives with his parents? How old are you guys?
Author Wingedisis Posted July 6, 2004 Author Posted July 6, 2004 I am 26 he is 27 & yes he is going to college so he is living at home. It has bee 4 days & No call but I am ok coming to terms with the fact that Not everyone who seems like they are a perfect fit actually are. I am holding my head up high & I will be ok. I have my guitar, my music & the rest of my life to look forward to
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