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I need advice. I'm 25 years old, not trying to rush anything but a the same time I need to know there's light at the end of the tunnel.

 

I've been dating a guy sine October, making our relationship official in February. Other than during the initial courtship, I've always felt I was more into this than he. He is 27, and as far as I know this is his longest relationship since high school. Recently, he lost his job and has mentioned the possibility of moving to Washington. I don't think it's likely that he'll move, but just the fact that he's considering it makes me want to run for the hills. Am I wasting my time, or does he just need space? I'm not sure what to do here.

 

Another issue I have is that he rarely responds to my texts. When he does it's hours later. In person we are totally affectionate and constantly laughing, so needless to say this guy really confuses me.

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Are you taking it too seriously? No, you're taking it the way you're taking it and it's valid. If he's not taking it seriously enough for you, and it's making you unhappy, you two need to have a talk.

 

But you need to figure out if this guy is worth the effort if he's not willing to put as much into it as you are.

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