one goal Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 As I posted before, that one girl I looked up on FB today and looks like she has a boyfriend, husband, the other hottie does too I think from looking at FB, and the super hottie I'm actually not sure about. She seems to always hangout with the guy who sits next to her and on breaks ect they're always together the entire time and walk off and do whatever. I mean this is like game six of the world series last year, down to final out when Berkman hit that single to keep the Cards alive.
Philosoraptor Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 I don't think anyone here can help you because you refuse to take any advice. It's the reason your threads get no responses. Simply enough either grow a pair and ask the girl out that you're interested in or let it go. Don't sit around stalking them online. If you're interested then ask right away. They'll let you know if they're interested, not interested, or currently in a relationship. I don't know why I responded to this because it hurts my brain. But there is everything you need to know. It will be ignored, but it was said. 1
Author one goal Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 I don't think anyone here can help you because you refuse to take any advice. It's the reason your threads get no responses. Simply enough either grow a pair and ask the girl out that you're interested in or let it go. Don't sit around stalking them online. If you're interested then ask right away. They'll let you know if they're interested, not interested, or currently in a relationship. I don't know why I responded to this because it hurts my brain. But there is everything you need to know. It will be ignored, but it was said. I've never even have talked to her much or know her. I mean you just can't go up to a girl you barely know and flat out ask them out.
Philosoraptor Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 I've never even have talked to her much or know her. I mean you just can't go up to a girl you barely know and flat out ask them out. Yes you can. It's easy. Introduce yourself, have a short bit of small talk, and get to the point. 1
Author one goal Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 Yes you can. It's easy. Introduce yourself, have a short bit of small talk, and get to the point. Well she knows my name, worked once in a group with her but otherwise have not talked to her.
Seneca Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 Don't ask her out, you sound needy and desperate so it will probably blow up in your face. Instead invite her to an event. An invite sounds like this... You: "Hey [girls name], how's everything?" Her: blah blah.. You: "Oh cool. Got any plans for this weekend?" Her: blah blah You: "Cool. Well I'm heading to this [cool event or cool party] this weekend. You're welcome to come if you like. You can just shoot me a text and I'll let you know where it's at..." Her: blah blah She will either take down your number to come along or she won't. Either way you just move on... This approach will work best for you because there's no pressure on your part. And best of all no pressure on her. It's just an invite...
Author one goal Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 I don't think anyone here can help you because you refuse to take any advice. It's the reason your threads get no responses. Simply enough either grow a pair and ask the girl out that you're interested in or let it go. Don't sit around stalking them online. If you're interested then ask right away. They'll let you know if they're interested, not interested, or currently in a relationship. I don't know why I responded to this because it hurts my brain. But there is everything you need to know. It will be ignored, but it was said. I would think most girls would be creeped out if a guy they barely know at all asks them out.
Author one goal Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 Don't ask her out, you sound needy and desperate so it will probably blow up in your face. Instead invite her to an event. An invite sounds like this... You: "Hey [girls name], how's everything?" Her: blah blah.. You: "Oh cool. Got any plans for this weekend?" Her: blah blah You: "Cool. Well I'm heading to this [cool event or cool party] this weekend. You're welcome to come if you like. You can just shoot me a text and I'll let you know where it's at..." Her: blah blah She will either take down your number to come along or she won't. Either way you just move on... This approach will work best for you because there's no pressure on your part. And best of all no pressure on her. It's just an invite... But like I said though I have barely even ever talked to her before. WHy would she go do something with a guy she doesn't know?
Cracker Jack Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 You've been given more than enough suggestions. There is no magical answer for you here.
somedude81 Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 Don't ask her out, you sound needy and desperate so it will probably blow up in your face. Instead invite her to an event. An invite sounds like this... You: "Hey [girls name], how's everything?" Her: blah blah.. You: "Oh cool. Got any plans for this weekend?" Her: blah blah You: "Cool. Well I'm heading to this [cool event or cool party] this weekend. You're welcome to come if you like. You can just shoot me a text and I'll let you know where it's at..." Her: blah blah She will either take down your number to come along or she won't. Either way you just move on... This approach will work best for you because there's no pressure on your part. And best of all no pressure on her. It's just an invite... What I find very ironic, is that the guys asking for help online, most likely don't know of any events or parties that they can invite the girl to. If they had something cool to do every weekend, they probably wouldn't be online asking for help Somebody in the background yells "They should make friends and have an active social life." Shut you face!
SJC2008 Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 I have a suggesstion but I'll start off with a question. Are you hot?? Based of of the multiple "hot" references you seem to be narrowing your focus to the women who are extremely above average. Go for what you want don't get me wrong but typically hot guys get hot girls.
mortensorchid Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 So did you do it? DOn't leave us hanging. We want to know!
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