Stargirl2712 Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 So my ex and I dated for over a year and broke up due to difference in religion. We stayed friends for five months after then I decided that I needed space because he started being really friendly with another girl of the same religion. I went NC starting the summer. I broke it a couple times, but I'm just trying to keep it more and more. However, I just don't seem to feel any better. I still obsess over him and I really fear going back to school. We are in the same friend group too. He's really popular because he's very extroverted and just a really nice guy to everyone. I'm the opposite...i'm really shy and i prefer to keep to myself. I keep comparing myself to him, and I feel like a complete loser because everyone just LOVES him. I feel like everyone will make a big deal if he starts to pursue a relationship with the other girl, and they will compare her to me. I also feel like people will think I'm a bad person or something just because he is really nice...I don't want to be overshadowed and I want to shine too, but I feel like he's just going to become more popular and well liked while I'll just be "the girl that he dated." Is it normal to feel this way? How do I feel better about myself in regards to this BU?
Mr Scorpio Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 What does your faith tell you to do in regard to this situation?
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