edwards99 Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 out of no where..i get two texts from my ex...saying she hatese so ***king much and she never ever wants to hear from me or see me again..n that i ruined her life and she let me.. where did that ciome from?
Exit Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 How would any of us know? lol Don't let her succeed at getting in your head with these strange texts. If she has something to say she can say it like an adult instead of fishing for a response with these vague texts that tempt you to ask what she means.
Author edwards99 Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 true..i didnt reply..this wasnt my wanting...i tried n tried ti get her to stay..i think something bad may have happend n im the outlet
Author edwards99 Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 i do have some responces..but i kinda wonder what happens if i dont feed into it
EgoJoe Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 I'd respond. "Text somebody who isn't wise to your bull****."
WeAllMightBeNuts Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 Funny. Getting a contact from someone that is saying they don't want to have contact with you. See the irony? 2
Coffee20 Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 Sometimes I have weird temptation to write me ex how much he hurt me and that I am not sorry anymore and I disagree with him and that I hate him.....especially in my weak - angry moments. But I don't do it, because I honestly think he would take his mobile and have a big laugh, it would also make him happy - he always tells if people suffer it makes him feel good. So maybe your ex feels angry or is in this phase and doesn't know how to deal with it better. I would ignore her message.
Sugarkane Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 Don't reply it's what they want. They get off on it.
Author edwards99 Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 really so don't reply anything because I don't want her to think that I read and that i was so hurt ...
Author edwards99 Posted June 27, 2012 Author Posted June 27, 2012 its driving me crazy..i wanna ask her why send that..why feel like that
Reddice Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 If she sent it without any kind of provocation from your side, then I'd say she's not over you. I guess she's hurt from the break up, but is doing all she can to convince herself that you're the bad guy. This is only to ease her guilt. I'd guess that as far as she's concerned, the break up was not her fault, but yours. So now, instead of hating herself, she can focus on hating you. It's much easier that way. Don't stroke her ego by responding to her text message. You will only prove her right. Instead, let this stroke your ego (she's still thinking of you) and give her what she wants: Total NC.
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