BF watching videos of music he doesn't even like on youtube

[lizza50]

I was browsing on youtube earlier and came across my bf's video history on there. He had 3 videos of spanish/raggeton music (the videos were a bunch of slutty girls, one was just music and different pictures of girls in various slutty poses), however he's expressed in the past how much he hates that type of music.

 

 

 

My first thought is that he's obviously seeing someone else who listens to this music or a girl was using his phone to watch youtube and watched these videos.

 

 

 

Should I be concerned?

[TripLine]

No, guys do this all the time.

My skin tears like paper during sunburn but I still hit the beachAT 95* even when I dont swim, Why?

I Never ever pay cover charges to clubs and I hate top 40 music, but I go to clubs anyway, Why?

Some rated R teen movies suck but I watch it anyway, why?

Hooters food is expensive and overrated, but they go anyway, why?

 

Answer, the ladies.

[veggirl]

I think he's looking to see the girls, not hear the music.

 

Why would another girl be looking at girls on your BFs computer?

[Reddice]

Wait a minute... were you going through his telephone or his computer? Any way, your behaviour strikes me as paranoid. What reason do you have not to trust him?

[Oxy Moronovich]

Wait a minute... were you going through his telephone or his computer? Any way, your behaviour strikes me as paranoid. What reason do you have not to trust him?

Precisely. You constantly read stuff on the net by women snooping who say, "I stumbled onto my significant's other internet history" or they "accidentally" did got into it. I have access to the internet like everyone else here. There's no way you can accidentally or "stumble upon your bf's video history". You have to blatantly be searching for it to be able to view it. Yes, the behavior is paranoid. But virtually all women snoop in their men's things.

[Chi townD]

Noe! I wouldn't be too concerned. I absolutely HATE country music. BUT!!! There is one country song that I like, and I would listen to it over and over....

 

I wouldn't read too much into it.

[Chi townD]

I think he's looking to see the girls, not hear the music.

 

Why would another girl be looking at girls on your BFs computer?

 

WHY?!!?!? LOL!! I thought you were very open minded Veggirl!!!!

[Oncehadluv]

Congrats, your a pretty inquisitive STALKER!

[Leigh 87]

Guys like to look at attractive girls.

 

Plenty of guys who are in love look at porn and naked women.

 

Get used to it.

 

A guy will not suddenly change when he meets " the right girl" and decided he no longer needs to look at other naked girls.

 

Guys who do it do it because it is them - and not because they are not satisfied with the girl they are with.

[Trimmer]

Something else to keep in mind: you have to factor in the YouTube time-suck phenomenon. I've gotten on YouTube and started watching NASA videos about the Curiosity Rover (landing on Mars, August 5th at 10:31 PM Pacific Daylight Time, incidentally) and an hour and a half later, I'm watching grainy, shaky, backstage clips of Fleetwood Mac before a concert in the late '70's. What happened? How the heck did I get here? There may have been some Letterman clips, some Cinnamon Challenges, some Daft Punk... It's all a bit of a haze...

 

Also, please note that a video goes into your history even if you click on it and just barely watch the first few seconds and then dump it.

 

So if you ONLY found 3 weird videos in his history, I'd say that's a pretty mild evening of YouTube watching, and drawing conclusions like "he's seeing another girl" is a huge stretch....

 

Do you have other evidence for not trusting your boyfirend? (and a feeling of paranoia on your part, by itself, is not evidence...)

 

( Here's the awesome video on the Curiosity Rover:

) Edited June 27, 2012 by Trimmer