KansasChica Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 I dated my ex for close to ten months. Neither one of us had much experience in relationships. I think we both took each other for granted- I could be domineering and clingy, but I just thought he accepted that. He's much more passive. Looking back, I was definitely selfish in many ways, but I also accept that he had his faults too. He never communicated his feelings to me. He broke up with me seven months ago. I didn't beg him back, but I know he blamed a lot on me. Recently we've communicated again and we both accepted our faults- he acknowledged that he never communicated. I still love him and want to reconcile, but am trying to figure out the best approach: becoming friends again or straight out and ask him if he's interested in trying things again. I think he may be timid though about getting back with me and falling into the same pattern.
Philosoraptor Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 The best way to prove things are different is by action. Just be who you are and let the interest figure itself out. 2
Boynextdoor Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 The best way to prove things are different is by action. Just be who you are and let the interest figure itself out. I couldn't agree more with what Philosoraptor said. Though I haven't experienced it yet. Because I'm also still in the process of rebuilding myself. Your post caught my attention in the sense that I was dumped as well and blamed for the cause of it. So I myself I know the feeling. All throughout my stay here in LS, I've seen that Dumpers will generally have this mind set of checking "The Dumpee Out". (Regardless of their intention). This is the time where you focus on "YOU" alone. They will see the change sooner or later. So just hold on keep your head up. (Well I know its easier said than done). If others can do it so are we! Right? Hang in there! Keep fighting the good fight will all thy might!
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