Zezhit Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 I dont know how to explain my situation right now.The only way i can explain it to you is by the song 'Sometimes when we touch' by Dan Hill . Here are the lyrics: You ask me if I love you And I choke on my reply I'd rather hurt you honestly Than mislead you with a lie And who am I to judge you On what you say or do? I'm only just beginning to see the real you And sometimes when we touch The honesty's too much And I have to close my eyes and hide I wanna hold you til I die Til we both break down and cry I wanna hold you till the fear in me subsides Romance and all its strategy Leaves me battling with my pride But through the insecurity Some tenderness survives I'm just another writer Still trapped within my truth A hesitant prize fighter Still trapped within my youth And sometimes when we touch The honesty's too much And I have to close my eyes and hide I wanna hold you til I die Til we both break down and cry I wanna hold you till the fear in me subsides -------------------------------------------------- I dont know if i love her.At times i love her so much but at times i dont.Im really confused and its killing me,and i dont want to tell her i love her without actually meaning it.When i see her,i just go crazy and shes the only thing i focus on.Whats happening to me ?
Philosoraptor Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 Ignoring your lyrics. Don't say anything until you know it's true. Right now you seem to be in quite a happy place so just be patient and enjoy the ride. You'll know when your feelings are where they need to be. I'm in the same spot. Just relax and be happy to have met someone who gives you these type of feelings.
Author Zezhit Posted June 26, 2012 Author Posted June 26, 2012 Yeah i sometimes find that if i dont think about it,it goes away.But sometimes i cant help but think of it so much...it kills me inside. I told her i love her when i was so sure,but now the confusion keeps coming back,i hate this.
Philosoraptor Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 Yeah i sometimes find that if i dont think about it,it goes away.But sometimes i cant help but think of it so much...it kills me inside. I told her i love her when i was so sure,but now the confusion keeps coming back,i hate this. You need a good smack. I give myself one now and then when I start over thinking. Step back, take a breath, and enjoy what you do have. Be patient and put your focus on the moment. Just let things happen naturally.
Author Zezhit Posted June 26, 2012 Author Posted June 26, 2012 Thanks man.Its good to know im not the only one having this problem...im gonna punch myself everytime i overthink.After all all that matters is that i love her whole-heartedly,right ?
Philosoraptor Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 All that matters is you are happy with the relationship with her. Just enjoy it and you'll know when things click.
Author Zezhit Posted June 26, 2012 Author Posted June 26, 2012 Thanks so much man. I love her and I know it...so nothing should stop me from being with her. Good luck to you in finding your happiness
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