babyhuey87 Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 the woman I've been with on and off for the last year has lied and cheated on more then once this last weekend tho i found out so much more then i ever wanted to.we have been living together for the last six months haven't really been together. although she takes my money and we do everything a couple will just with out the title on it she works outta town alot. she was in an affair last year witch is the main reason i finally left and mind u this was after she ****ed a good friend of mine and other people.she was pregnant when i left said it was mine and i told her if we were together i would stay. i didnt believe it was mine cuz she wouldn't call off the affair with the guy we were not together at the time and i had no real proof. i left and was gone about three weeks later after no contact from each other she sends me a text message says she lost the baby i was upset about it but didn't let her know i found out this weekend that it wasn't mine and she had an abortion cuz he wanted her to but unknowingly i came back to her she said things would be different and that we would give it a real chance i killed a guy bout two weeks later he came to my house and attacked me i didn't know him prosecuter says self defense. i became a shut in and paranoid bad i didn't want her to leave my said she ended up leaving for a week in that week she cheated on me with her affairs wife and him for all i know. she came back n we broke up. i moved out and she went back to him. a few months later i moved back in cuz i was working and my roommates were moving we stayed spilt up we had sex regualy and stuff went back to the way it used to we were acting like a couple just with out the title again. well this last weekend i found out she has been lying and having an affair with the guy again this time i wasn't as mad cuz we wernt together i told her to leave if she wanted to be with someone else we have been living in my place since February. i told her i wasn't gonna go thought it again and not to lie just be real and so i found out she was lying and on Friday night she ****ed him before i got off work then we ****ed later that night she has done me wrong is so many ways that i couldn't post enough to get it all out no i still love her though all this **** but i really don't know if im in love with her i think i am i still feel the same about her but I've been getting disgusted with her getting sick to my stomach theres just some much i want to tell you guys but i don't know wear ti begin or even how to say it she has done worse then what im saying know or maybe it just feels worse. what am i supposed to do
Philosoraptor Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 This woman is nothing but toxic for your life. I'd really suggest therapy for this as there is a lot going on here. She cheated multiple times and you're dealing with having killed someone. This is a mess.
BetrayedH Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 Run. Fast. You have no marriage and no kids with this woman. Those situations make someone hesitate. You'll get over her. Find someone that doesn't treat you like dirt. She's enjoying what she is doing to you. Do you want to add an STD to your list of problems? 1
Author babyhuey87 Posted June 26, 2012 Author Posted June 26, 2012 (edited) i do have kid with her he's not mine but hes called me dad for long time now and i take care of him i love him like he was mine. i don't know why i want to even be with her Edited June 26, 2012 by babyhuey87
Ninja'sHusband Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 i do have kid with her he's not mine but hes called me dad for long time now and i take care of him i love him like he was mine. i don't know why i want to even be with her What is the boy's real father's situation?
Author babyhuey87 Posted June 26, 2012 Author Posted June 26, 2012 (edited) hes nowhere in the picture i am told he called after he was born and said he didnt want anything to do with him and to stay away from his family. Edited June 26, 2012 by babyhuey87
Ducky23 Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 the woman I've been with on and off for the last year has lied and cheated on more then once this last weekend tho i found out so much more then i ever wanted to.we have been living together for the last six months haven't really been together. although she takes my money and we do everything a couple will just with out the title on it she works outta town alot. she was in an affair last year witch is the main reason i finally left and mind u this was after she ****ed a good friend of mine and other people.she was pregnant when i left said it was mine and i told her if we were together i would stay. i didnt believe it was mine cuz she wouldn't call off the affair with the guy we were not together at the time and i had no real proof. i left and was gone about three weeks later after no contact from each other she sends me a text message says she lost the baby i was upset about it but didn't let her know i found out this weekend that it wasn't mine and she had an abortion cuz he wanted her to but unknowingly i came back to her she said things would be different and that we would give it a real chance i killed a guy bout two weeks later he came to my house and attacked me i didn't know him prosecuter says self defense. i became a shut in and paranoid bad i didn't want her to leave my said she ended up leaving for a week in that week she cheated on me with her affairs wife and him for all i know. she came back n we broke up. i moved out and she went back to him. a few months later i moved back in cuz i was working and my roommates were moving we stayed spilt up we had sex regualy and stuff went back to the way it used to we were acting like a couple just with out the title again. well this last weekend i found out she has been lying and having an affair with the guy again this time i wasn't as mad cuz we wernt together i told her to leave if she wanted to be with someone else we have been living in my place since February. i told her i wasn't gonna go thought it again and not to lie just be real and so i found out she was lying and on Friday night she ****ed him before i got off work then we ****ed later that night she has done me wrong is so many ways that i couldn't post enough to get it all out no i still love her though all this **** but i really don't know if im in love with her i think i am i still feel the same about her but I've been getting disgusted with her getting sick to my stomach theres just some much i want to tell you guys but i don't know wear ti begin or even how to say it she has done worse then what im saying know or maybe it just feels worse. what am i supposed to do How did you find out all of these things? You say she's cheated and lied, but you also say you haven't been together, where are the lines drawn between what she did when you were 'together' and 'not together'? If she was lying then, what's to say she isn't lying now? Have you talked to her? Are you taking space to work through your thoughts and feelings?
Author babyhuey87 Posted June 26, 2012 Author Posted June 26, 2012 we haven't been together for eight months but all that means is there hasn't been a title on it we share a life kids expenses house bills everything just no title and i was fine with her doing anything she wanted but i wasn't going to support her and contine to be alone with be still in our house i told her if she was unhappy to leave and that i would even help her move i had the money plenty of time and was ready to give it to her but she said she didnt want to leave she continued to stay i asked her repeatly if she was ****ing anyone else she kept sayin no and i was starting to believe her then all this happened. she said that she killed it off and was willing to have no contact with him we are currently talking about making work. the way i found out thus time is i had a bad nightmare about her ****ing around on me i woke up and i hacked into her phone and found all the stuff that has been going on i woke her up and we argued at four in the morning and i keep finding out more n more everyday im lost on what to do
Ninja'sHusband Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 It really sounds like you should just let go and take care of yourself. You shouldn't be supporting her while she gets it on with other men =\
turnera Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 Would your mother want you with a woman like that? Then you have your answer.
nofool4u Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 what am i supposed to do Get rid of the wh0re. You say you live together. Is her name on the lease? If not, pack her things, put them out front and tell her to get out. If her name is on the lease, tell her you want her to get out anyway and that looking at her makes you want to vomit.
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