Skysman Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 Last night my gf or fiance whatever, took a knife to my shoulder and called me her Ex husbands name matt. I called the cops and they found her/arrested her. but now not even 24 hours later im so upset i just want her back. Ive told myself I wont allow them to prosecute her, because i love her and miss her so much..... I just dont know how to proceed with this. No other witnesses besides me and her. Shes told everyone including our boss and mutual friends of ours that I was beating her and not allowing her to leave. I finally got someone to get ahold of her and she told my friend they were charging her with aggrivated assault because of the knife wound in my shoulder. Ive been told its alright to feel remorse over calling the cops and having her arrested and to feel like its your fault. But ive been her only support the last 2 years through her nasty divorce. Its sad but I even told the cops on the way to the precinct that I would let her back into the house even after all this. I just want her back.... but for that to happen i would have to say in court that I lied about everything I told them. I dunno what to do about it all.
Norse Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 I would say a situation like that could occur again, and this time it could be much worse for you. I would let this one go.
hk_1 Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 Do what you think is right in the best interest of you and the girl. Sometimes bad things happen take it as a challenge of life.
Philosoraptor Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 Dafuq? She attacked you with a weapon. You sound like you have a deep need to save her and that doesn't make for a very healthy relationship... but neither does stabbing your partner to begin with.
NoMagicBullet Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 I'm reading your post 3 days later, so I don't know what's happened since then, but if you can get away from her, do so! It's one thing to help someone through something like a bitter divorce, but... she stabbed you with a knife! You're lucky it was just the shoulder -- she might aim for something more vital next time. I don't know what the whole situation is, but it sounds very toxic and violent. Don't lie for her. Tell the truth, whatever it is. Lies won't help her in the long run, nor will they help you.
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