whoknows11 Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 How is it that an ex girlfriend gets mad whenever i dont text her for a long time, gets so scared/worried that theres another girl and stuff because of it. But yet she never initiates contact. And if i wait to hear from her, it doesnt happen. Ill say text me whenever, or text me after if you want when shes with girlfriends or family. But i never get a text. Its really damn selfish. Now i see why people get confused and let down when they keep contact. Just needed to vent.
Author whoknows11 Posted June 26, 2012 Author Posted June 26, 2012 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/second-chances/331815-needing-miracle-there-still-hope
Philosoraptor Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 Sounds like she wants to know your still pining and if you're still dinging her you're not over her. Stop contacting her as her being worried about whether or not you're dating is not your concern.
Author whoknows11 Posted June 26, 2012 Author Posted June 26, 2012 Sounds like she wants to know your still pining and if you're still dinging her you're not over her. Stop contacting her as her being worried about whether or not you're dating is not your concern. Thats the thing, i really do miss her. And just want her back when she feels its ready to happen. Im not pushing her or anything. Ive battled jealousy and insecurity through part of the relationship and alot after breakup. But ive changed that. I dont know and trust her more. Cause it was childish on my behalf. I also dont freak out or fight anymore wirh her.. I did at times lately. And it was upsetting her and starting to push her away. But i changed it also. We ve been talking but theres times lately and have been times since breakup that shes been this way, what im talking about in the first post. Just doesnt ever initiate contact and what not. I havent talked since 3pm with her yesterday. I doubt ill hear from her as well today.
flitzanu Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 Thats the thing, i really do miss her. And just want her back when she feels its ready to happen. Im not pushing her or anything. Ive battled jealousy and insecurity through part of the relationship and alot after breakup. But ive changed that. I dont know and trust her more. Cause it was childish on my behalf. I also dont freak out or fight anymore wirh her.. I did at times lately. And it was upsetting her and starting to push her away. But i changed it also. We ve been talking but theres times lately and have been times since breakup that shes been this way, what im talking about in the first post. Just doesnt ever initiate contact and what not. I havent talked since 3pm with her yesterday. I doubt ill hear from her as well today. did she dump you? i'm assuming from "when she feels it's ready to happen" that she did. it isn't going to happen. "break" means breakup, as does "i need space" or "i need time". take the cue to move on and stop worrying about her, she still has control over you and you're not even dating.
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