zanzi Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 He says he loves me very much, but the more he says it, the less I want to be with him or love him. Sometimes I just want him to go away. He seems to feel very strongly for me and because my feelings have never been that strong from the beggining, I wan't him less. I pretty much broke up with him last night but I feel it is likely when I see him later I will take him back and try to " smother" these feelings of not wanting to be with him in order to make him happy. We have also been living together and being alone again will be a novelty for me, I do not like the place we are living and I will be left alone there once he leaves. I do not know why I don't love him properly. I just don't. What is wrong???? please help???? This is so hard.
Philosoraptor Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 There is nothing wrong with you. You've said how you feel and that's just how it is. I had a relationship where the girl was great in every way but the feelings just weren't what they needed to be in order to sustain things. Don't go back to pity him though as that's about the worst thing you can do for him. Move on, adjust your people picker, and patiently wait for someone who gets those sparks flowing the way you'd like.
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