maxy1 Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 It has been a really long time since I have posted here about this. Broke up with the ex in October '11 and I still am ****ed up. I still think about her every day to some extent. Not as bad as at first, like when I had hopes of getting back with her or whatever but I just dont understand why I can't move on. I have also moved back home and it really sucks to go from being on your own with someone you love to being back home with basically no friends or social life. I am 24, I should be at the peak of my life but I feel so ****ing far behind. I am still in school and won't graduate for another two years or so. I am busy as heck with school and work and just got a better job, but I don't think my new job will really help with a social life because I won't be around a lot of people, it is just a good resume builder. I am also unhappy with myself, i don't like me and I don't like where my life has gone. Should I get help or a psychiatrist? Can a psychiatrist help me get my mind of my old life and get me to find happiness within myself? I just want to be happy and I clearly am not
thepedestrian Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 You are thinking about her less and less... you are healing. Its a process and everyone goes through it at different rates. If you don't like where you are in your life right now you got either two choices: Change it or Accept it. Never, ever, worry about where you should be. You are here now and all you can do is use the past to teach you lessons for your future. Do not dwell in the emotional past for it is gone!
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