zigg1 Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 This girl I like does not have the same feelings for me. But ever since I told her how i feel she said she has become a lot more and attatched to Me. She touches me more and I do the same to her. We also talk a lot more. Every day until like 2 am. I asked her out on a date and she said ok but we're going out as freinds We have neve kissed or anything besides hug. But she does get a biT weird if I'm Hanging with other girls when I said I couldn't hang with her because I had to leave she got all bitchy and cut the phone. Te other day I told her this chick likes me and she said "go for her she seems like a good girl" I don't know if I'm in the freindZone or possibly moving towards a relationship with this girl. I told her I don't want to be mislead. Seems like he likes me but I don't know how to make that go any further
no_radar Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 I know this is not what you want to hear, but girls like this are very bad news, I have 1st hand experience. They are controlling and self centered, the second the guy she has been looking for comes along she will drop you like a hot piece of coal. Do yourself a favour buddy, save your emotions and steer well clear. Put alot of distance between yourself and her and make her fully aware you are not a toy for her to play with and manipulate!!
Author zigg1 Posted June 25, 2012 Author Posted June 25, 2012 I know this is not what you want to hear, but girls like this are very bad news, I have 1st hand experience. They are controlling and self centered, the second the guy she has been looking for comes along she will drop you like a hot piece of coal. Do yourself a favour buddy, save your emotions and steer well clear. Put alot of distance between yourself and her and make her fully aware you are not a toy for her to play with and manipulate!! true, i have been with a girl like that before, but this one seems to only have her eyes on me, there are other guys that are after her but she only seems to stay with me i wanna make it clear that i aint looking for friendship, either relationship or nothing
WonderKid Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 It's great you established that ultimatum quickly. You're interested in her...right? She's interested in you...right? Then you guys shouldn't be "friends". You are bf and gf or nothing else. If she doesn't want to date and be a couple, then leave it alone. It will save you a lot of stress and guessing, and can cut out the games and manipulation. It's your choice though.
Author zigg1 Posted June 26, 2012 Author Posted June 26, 2012 It's great you established that ultimatum quickly. You're interested in her...right? She's interested in you...right? Then you guys shouldn't be "friends". You are bf and gf or nothing else. If she doesn't want to date and be a couple, then leave it alone. It will save you a lot of stress and guessing, and can cut out the games and manipulation. It's your choice though. yhea ur right, i just wanted second opinions, i dont wanna make the mistake of backing off and then her having feelings for me. I think shes worth it thats why.
jobaba Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 yhea ur right, i just wanted second opinions, i dont wanna make the mistake of backing off and then her having feelings for me. I think shes worth it thats why. No woman who rejects you after she knows you as a person is worthy of chasing. NONE. ZERO. Remember that. Write it on your bedroom ceiling or shower curtain...
Author zigg1 Posted June 26, 2012 Author Posted June 26, 2012 No woman who rejects you after she knows you as a person is worthy of chasing. NONE. ZERO. Remember that. Write it on your bedroom ceiling or shower curtain... so i guess its the ultimatum, i told her last night that i dont like to be mislead, she said we just going as freinds so i told her forget about our date. she started apologizing. She did not say their is no chance something might happen between. so im wondering if it is possible.
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