sunlover Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 Im 25. Seeing a guy for 4 months but hes still grieving over a broken engagement. So for now. We are just FWB but hang 2-3 times a week. We went to high school together and have mutual friends. I really like him, would you rather walk away and have him miss you to see what he's missing even though theres a risk he'll find another girl. Or, do you wait and be friends for now to see if he becomes emotionally available in the near future?
Philosoraptor Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 If you want him then don't play games. Either you wait or you move on and find someone that is available.
veggirl Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 You need to walk away for your own sanity, not to try to get him to miss you and all that junk that will never happen. He is not ready for a new relationship and you don't seem happy just being fwb as you are catching feelings. So protect yourself and walk away. You don't start things hoping someone will change (become more emotionally available). That's a great way to get your heart broken.
Mr Scorpio Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 I agree with Philo (I think) that games are inappropriate. But I know in my case, they worked on me!
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